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Q: I just moved in to a house in Lake Park, NC. I have lived here for a week and I like this girl that lives across the street. I don't have the nerve to ask her out. Can someone tell me a good way to ask her out.

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fist you should start off getting to know her better and let her get to know you better and try to make her life and if shes ever in an situation show her you care about her. make her feel like you care and let her make you think she likes you and then make a move.

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Q: I have been best freinds with this girl since 4th grade and now that I am going into high school I don't want to be best freinds with her. I want a new best freind and meet new people. I still want to be freinds with her, just not as close. She doesn't have many close friends and me leaving her would be the end of the world for her. Is this mean of me? Should I stay BFs with her?

you can have tons of best friends i did and guess what we all hung out together. so you can get alot of friends together and hang out and nobodies heart is broken and you gained new friends and ending up keeping a fantastic first best friend.

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Q: I have this friend he's a guy hes one of my best friends and everyone time he goes out with another girl i sorta get jelous i dont know why though...i just cant really figure out if i like him more then a friend

Well yes you could posobly have feelings for this guy or just simply hate the fact that there is another girl taking part in his life other than you. but you should know if you like him ask yourself does he make me feel good laugh with him and think about him. and if its those things you probably like him cause i think every girl likes a guy that makes them feel good inside and makes them laugh.

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Q: i have a friend who has scary dreams..really scary dreams and he told me about one that one of his close family member got cut and the next day found a cut on her arm.hes really getting scared and doesnt want to tell anyone else about this ive told him to tell a parent but hes only told me.and i dont kno how to help him ive told him all i kno about telling somone who can help but he doesnt want to.
any ideas

tell him its for his and his familys safety and say hey i really care about you and i dont want this to take over a part of your life you dont deserve this you really need to get help and im saying this because i care.

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Q: I used to be best friends with this girl.Then i started to like her and all was going well in our relationship.Then stuff happended and we had a big fight.Its been months since then i just want to be friends with her. I stopped liking her. a week or two ago i said sorry and we both "forgave" each other and all seemed very well. days later, i talked to her and she started shutting me down.
What more can I do to be friends with this person again?Do I just leave her alone?

Start talkin to her and if she never answers back like she cares leave her alone and give her time to think abot what a wonderful friend she lost she should come back responding

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Q: my best friend gets rly jealous when guys think im hott. sometimes, she even tries to stop me from evr talking to them cuz shes jealous that they dont think shes hott, and she gets mad at me. One time online we were talkin to this guy we saw that day, and he thought i was hott, and my friend got mad and was like wouldnt let me see what she was sayin to him, and then she got kinda mad when he asked for my sn. wat should i do? i hate when shes mad at me, its really annoying.

Just tell her it's not your fault they like you and let her know say hey if you cant cool it a bit then we just shouldnt be friends oh and dont take advice from that one girl that said to drop all your ugly friends thats wrong not all ungly people are that way.

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Q: I have a friend she does nothing but drag me down and talk about my other friends. How do I tell her I don't won't to be her friend anymore?

Just tell her the situation andsay ya know your not being a very good friend right now so i think we should go our seprate ways. Really exspress your feelings and let her know whats going on and that you dont like it she sounds like a brat to me anyway

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Q: Hi! My friend is kind of two faced. One second she is my friend and the next she is talking behind my back. I dont get it. We have been friends for 3 years. What do I do?

Talk to this person and tell him/her how you feel. Or just simply get a new friend. i completly understand where your coming from i have a friend named erin and me and her were good friends with this girl named bailey and she was the excact same way and we made new friends and we still talk to her but were not friends like we used to be. and try to keep your secrets and such on the down low from her.

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