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I have a really good friend and lately we have been getting into a lot of dumb little fights. I really want to try to talk to her about things but I'm afraid that we will get in another fight. I can't sleep at night because of everything happening. I think that we are loosing eachother and we always talk about it but it doesn't seem like it's working. All I do is cry every night knowing that it will never be the same.. help me! :-\ (link)
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Friends that hang out with eachother a lot do get into a lot of fights. I suggest just talking to her about it. Even if you think you'll get into another fight, talking about things is the best way to get through them. Why would you cry every night over it if you just "think" that you're losing eachother. It doesn't mean that you are just because you are gettin into fights. I wouldn't worry about it that much. It's normal. Maybe take a break for a while, hang out with other people but don't stop talking completely.
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Hey I am having a problem deciding what high school i am going to go too. See one of my best friends and I were planning to go to the same high school but but now I am having second thoughts but I don't want to tell my friend cuz I don't want her to get mad at me What should I do? lost (link)
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tell her the truth, let her know that u want to go to a different school. of coarse she will be mad at first but when it comes to best friends she will underdstand ur choice if its really what u want.
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ok this guy is my friend but he just told me he liked me. he sed: i like u and i care about u but u if u dont feel the same way about me than fuck it well be friends. he seemed mad about it but i couldnt tell cuz he sed it over the internet. idk wut to say.cuz hes cute and i like him as a friend and i do care about him but not that away. but he liked my sister a couple of months ago and i didnt like that. and now idk wut to say. please answer soon.
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Well, the best thing to do is to tell him how you feel. just say straight out that you just like him as a friend and you dont want to ruin the friendship that you both have, but this time do it in person or on the phone so you can hear his tone and the expression in his voice. make sure you state that you do care about him and you jsut want to be friends, make sure your straightfoward and honest. don't be afraid to say something that may hurt his feelings if its comming from the heart.
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ok...my best friend is mad at me because i tried talking her into going back to my church because she has done some bad stuff lately. I apologized and told her i like her for who she is but she wont talk to me...now what do i do? (link)
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Tell her your sorry and that's all you can be, and the apology is there if she ever wants to except it... there really isnt anything else you can do
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Im 14 female..okay my bff steph n i are....soooo close we go on vacas together n my mom is like her second mom since her family life isnt so good..she is like my sister..we have been through hell n back together n i know i can tell her anything!! shes such a great friend! but...well lately we have been drifting..we r kinda going seperate ways i think..im into school..im going to summer school to get a highschool credit n she wont go..she missed 49 days from school last year n yeah..so im into school n shes not..plus our moms are 2 TOTALLY diff. ppl...well it sux bc i kinda do feel like we r drifting n part is bc of this guy..he is my ex b/f(which by tha way im ova completley bc of his nasty additude!!!)..i have knwon him fer 3 1/2 years n she has been "close" with him for 1 1/2 or so..well he is a big time PLAYA!!! n her and i both know it..but him n her have some special realtionship...n right now they r REALLLLLY close..but i know he is guna end up hurting her..n sumtimes she will bring it up like how much of an ass he is being to her n shell just laugh n say "o-well ill learn sum day!" but i knwo she is guna come running baq to me hurt AGAIN fer tha 6th time..n it just gets irratating..i wanna talk to her but i dont think she'll listen..im not sure what to do....?!?!?!?!? plz help thannnnnx! much luv! (link)
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Just tell her you dont wanan see her get hurt again, tell her you dont like that your best friends keeps getting hurt... n let her kno that u feel that u guys are goin seperate ways..she what she thinks
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about a week ago.. a couple of my close friends (4 of em) well tha one i neva realy liked messaged me on tha computer.. and started to call me a slut and a whore.. and say all this other stuff dat deff waznt tru! it pissed me offf sooooooooooooooo bad.. i started ta say otha stuff that i really shuldnta said but wen ur called all of that stuff u jus get mad! tha next day one of tha girls told me she neva really said ne of it.. then at a party all of em said sorry again.. except tha one i alwayz hated.. i forgave them.. but do u think it was right to forgive them after what they did?
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Well if they said sorry then maybe you should... I dunno it depends on the person and what's happened in the past with you and the person
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my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him?
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Tell her you're sorry and that you wouldnt have started liking him if you would have known that she liked him, just sit down and talk to her, if shes ur best friend she will understand
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Ok.. i've been like really moody or however you want to put it and all I keep doing is pushing my friends away. I also get mad over just little things that don't really matter but still piss me off. Am I depressed or something because I also hate my life. Help.. (link)
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ok if u keep pushing ur friends away all the time then they are defenetlly goin to get mad at u. u need to talk to them.if u r depressed maybe u need a councler, but those always arent the funest. maybe u need a new sport or something, just keep u busy, try new things everyday
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Well i am really conufsed about this friend that i have. One second she wants to talk to me and she seems really happy but then another second she seems like she doesnt want anything to do with me. And i really wanna be friends with her but i dont wanna push it. And she also seems like she cares about some other people more than me. So what do you think i should do because i have already tried talking to her about it but i think she is just telling me what i wanna hear. So please help me!
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hehe i kno who u r but i will keep it a secret! lol ur a great friend n i would hate to loose u. n u dont wanna try to like impress her so she will like u more. u need to tell her that she needs to tell u the truth. its not worth a friendship is she lies to u. tell her if she doesnt tell u the truth then its over. tell her how u feel. talk to her in person so then u will really kno if shes lieing or not. GOOD LUCK!!!
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Most of my friends don't like one of my friends, and there is a good reason for this. Last night, I slept over my friends house who is one of the ones who doesnt like the other friend...and she was sayin mean stuff 2 the other friend on IM, and then I got on my screen name and the one who no one likes IMs me and asks "where r u?" so i signed off quick ssayin i hadda go, but I think she might've had an idea i was right there and think i was takin part in it. I just don't wanna get in the middle of the whole thing. There are some good reasons the rest of my friends don't like her, but I don't want to stop being friends with her or any of the other ones. If she confronts me again and asks where I was and finds out I was right there, what do I say? (link)
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Tell her the truth, if she is really your friend she would understand. Just tell her you weren't taking part in it, which sounds like you weren't. I'm sure you were trying to get them to stop, tell her that to, if you were. u cant lie to ur friends. if they dont like u for who are u or who ur hanging out with then there a waist of ur time. thats there problem that they dont like u for who u are. if they get mad at u then u need to talk to them about it n see what u can do to help and fix it. but dont lie to them
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There is this boy named Joseph he his really cute and really sweet and im really into him and he is into me to. But see he is friends with one of my friends his name is Donald. And Donald has a little brother named Bryan. Ok see my problem is all three of them like me and want to go out with me. But see i didnt know Donald and Bryan like me till recently. I asked y didnt they say any thing and response was cause joseph wanted to go with you but see i dont know if i want to go with joseph. I think i might want to go out with donald but i cant do that with out one of them finding out and turning into a big mess but i think i really do want to go with joseph what should i do sign~Triple Trouble (link)
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dont go out with any of them, that way no1 will get hurt. if u really like all of them then u will kno that u cant hurt any of them
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