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I have this friend and she hangs out with me all the time and stuff but shes kinda mean to me and sometimes it gets to the point where im so sad that i cry . what should i do?

um...if i were you, i would most deff. stop hanging out with that so called "friend" of yours. no true friend would bring their other friend down. we have friends to build us up and encourage us. get some new friends.

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hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?

BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer.

well, sounds like you already know that was a bad decision. so i wont go in to that. i think the right thing for you to do would be to go to your friends and let them know exactly what you told me. that it was stupid of you to call him, and that that was rude on your part. and you accidently let it slip that they were the ones who dared you and that they are in some sort of danger with this kid because he is planning revenge. all you can do is appoligize, and mabey talk to that kid, and see if you cant talk him out of it. if your friends are mad at you, then you cant help that. the truth hurts sometimes.

hope i helped

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