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Dear Fall Out Girl,
i heard from my other friend that you give great advice. so here is my question...

i have this problem with my friend.
she thinks she's all that and she doesnt even care about me anymore because she thinks she should hang out with the more popular girls!
we don't go to the movies anymore and we dont even talk on the phone! what should i do?

Signed,
Not Popular

Dear Not Popular,
Tell your friend how you feel. If she still wont talk to you, well, forget her. Every girl deserves a friend who is nice, who you can laugh with, and who you can trust.
She sounds pretty full of herself in my opinion.

-Advice From FallOutGirlxO

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I have been best freinds with this girl since 4th grade and now that I am going into high school I don't want to be best freinds with her. I want a new best freind and meet new people. I still want to be freinds with her, just not as close. She doesn't have many close friends and me leaving her would be the end of the world for her. Is this mean of me? Should I stay BFs with her?

If you really want to make this decision,
confront her. Talk to her about your feelings.
Don't keep it all bottled up inside, because if you keep it in, it can cause anger and frustration.
And also, before confronting her, think about why you don't want to be as close.
Was it because you got into a silly fight?
Or maybe you just wanted to have some space?

Remember, dont make silly mistakes in life,
because most of them can't be forgiven.


=)
i'll be happy to answer
any questions you have at all

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Alright, im stumped as to what to do for my birthday which is in like 3 days..im having about 8+ people over between the ages of 13-16. Please if you can help in any way, that would be great.

Thanks,
Racquel.

Maybe you guys could go to the movies, have a picnic or a little barbecue party.

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im 15/f. i've been best friends with this girl since i was in second grade. we're both sophmores. from second grade to seventh grade, we were like the best of friends. but, in eighth grade, she decided that quantity was more important to her than quality! so, now I feel like having 100 friends is more important to her. and it makes me feel really sad because she's like a sister to me. now it's like she has a new best friend. on top of that, she's been acting like a pain in the rear. she thinks she's so popular and so this and so that. she's just acting like a totally strange person and i feel like i don't even know her anymore. she's goes on vacation the whole summer because most of her family lives in europe. so, when she comes back, i just want things to be the way they use to be. i don't want to hang out with this big group of "friends" that she's fabricated. i want it to be the way it use to be and that whenever we went to the movies and stuff like that the group was just me and her with a whole bunch of guys. it was so much fun. what can i do to make her be that person again?

People come and go, but if you dont like how she has been acting, confront her. Tell her your feelings. If she still doesnt care what you say or what you think, just move on. Theres about
100000 billion people in the world, so go have fun with a new friend. ;)

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