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well my best friend went on a mission trip and met this guy and now she really likes him. and then today they went out together and he asked her out and she said yes! they have only known each other for a week and a half and shes only a sophmore while hes a senior!! im really upset. i think it was really stupid. shes never had a boyfriend because shes usually smart about guys but now shes making bad decisions. they started holding hands and stuff before they even dated! and i wouldnt care but THEYVE ONLY KNOWN EACH OTHER A LITTLE OVER A WEEK! and shes said YES whan he asked her out!! i just cant be happy for her because now i know shes gonna start kissing him and im upset because i want to be happy for her when she gets her first kiss and when she has her first relationship but i feel like shes giving up for a guy she barely knows!!!! i of course will talk to her about it but what should i do? he does seem genuine but neither of us hardly know him! if shes thinks hes right shouldnt she at least wait a little? especially before she gives up her first kiss and who knows what else!! please help :)
most of the reason why im upset is im really worried about her getting hurt. a guy broke my heart and i dont want her to get close to him and trust him for him to betray her. if she knew him better i would feel more comfortable about trusting him but i cant trust a guy shes only known for a week 1/2! and i do think they should date just..not yet. (link)
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As someone with a best friend who makes bad decisions concerning guys all the time, I can only advise one thing: keep your mouth shut. If you try to stop this relationship it is only going to make your friend mad. She will think that you are trying to control her or that you are jealous. A relationship where one is trying to control the other is stressful for the one being controlled. Trust your friend to make her own choices. Live and learn like everyone else.
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I was talking to my best friend (who recently moved away) and she told me that i should let one of my guy friends into my life. she knows that i have a fear of opening up to people and trust problems because of my past. so, the question is, do i let this guy be a part of my life. or do i just leave it as aquantinces? (link)
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I think you should let him into your life. If you don't you're not exactly even living life. If something happens, you move on and get on with your life. You can't live in fear. I don't know anything about this guy so I'm just telling ya what I know. There should be signs to tell if this guy is worth it or not. Hope I helped! :]
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This might be long so sorry! Ok, I have a boyfrend lets call him Mark. Mark and me have been going out for about 7 or 8 months. Recently, all of my friends have been calling him gay and bisexual and they are telling me to break up with him because he is "Mr. Flirtacious". I love Mark sooo much and my friends just dont understand, and they kept bothering me about him so i told them that i broke up with him but i really didnt. Then i told one of my friends that i really didnt break up with him and she is REALLY mad at me!!! We arent really "friends" anymore and i dont know what to do. I know lying is wrong...but should i chose my friends or the guy? thanx for any help i rate high!!! (link)
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Both your friends and Mark are in the wrong. Mark should not be flirting with everyone, if it bothers you. Your friends need to bud out. They should be happy that you have such a great guy. Plan a party or something, and invite everyone. Show your friends what kind of person Mark is. Also, tlak this out with them. Explain to them that you don't appreciate them telling you what to do. You'll respect their opinions, if they respect your decisions. Good luck.
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