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My friend and I have a lot of history. Long story summarized...
I lied to her about a pregnancy from when i was 15 years old that I told her was aborted but really never became a viable pregnancy. The boy who impregnated me was my boyfriend of 2 years and we broke up when I was 15 around the time the pregnancy happened.
When I was 17 i met my friend, lets call her Sally. Sally and I were friends for 6 months before she started dating the boy who got me pregnant, he was a mutual friend of ours and rather than ask me for my blessing she just kind've told me it was happening. Realistically I would've liked to have just been asked and I would've said yes regardless, they've been dating for 2 years now.
I'm now in a new relationship with a guy that she thinks is horrible for me and recently him and my new guy got in a fight. I stood by her in that fight and he almost left me for it.
Now she's calling me a selfish bitch because I admitted to having lied and told her how I felt about her never having asked about my new boyfriend.
She says she cares and wants the best for me but she's also telling me that she doesn't want to be my friend because she doesn't want to be around my relationship with my boyfriend.
Now she's being rude to me and I don't want to show that it hurts because I feel like that will mean she's winning. I just don't understand how we went from being friends and thinking that we were standing by each other to being so hostile.
I am now 20 and she is 19. (link)
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My advice for you is to tell her how you feel and if she don't understands that mean she really wasn't your friend . My answer to your question is no , she is not worth your pain and no one is .
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my best friend in the whole intire world told me she was going to go to a school in bixby and ill miss her soooooooo much will she cange will she forget about me will she get a new best friend??????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:( (link)
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Well , to let you know my bestfriend in the whole wide world is moving and going to another school too. But , my best advice for you is to trust your friend and know that she is not going to forget you or change .. Because if she is really your bestfriend she woudn't do that .. (: P.S. Try to keep in touch when she moves .
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Hi, i'm 13 and my birthday is coming up and i'm turning 14! I'm so excited and i cant think of a theme for my party!:/ I am inviting boys and girls. I am planning for the girls to spend the night and the boys to go home after a while. i would like to have a theme involving the colors blue and green. i have absolutely no idea what to do!! i want to have the party at my house. last year i just had friends come over to spend the night it was really boring. i'm hoping for this year to be fun and exciting for everyone. please help. thanks! (link)
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Well.. iThink yhu should have an hawiian birthday party . I'm 14 right now and one of my friends had one it was soooo fun ! And i kno everyone there was havingg fun especially me . Bhut if you want mix it up ah lil bit like have 2 themes stead of 1 have a birthday party no one had before it can might be really fun...
Love, Neice(: P.S. Hope you have a great birthday party !
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alright, so, My ex who lives in america, broke my heart really bad by doing numerous things, he went to a wedding and told me he saw a hot blonde who looked like me, he asked a girl what her answer would be if he was single(whilst he was with me) and numerous other things as well. I realsize now it was stupid of me to think a long distance relationship like this would actually work, he hurt me real bad
Now, a close friend of mine, who is like a sister has recently told me she has a crush on him. The guy and i broke up three weeks before she told me this. She says she likes him but wants to tell him she likes him, point is im worried that he's going to do exactly what he did to me to her. and She is much more vulnerable than me in that shes a very emotional person, also its going to upset me alot if she dates my ex. As i'll have a constant reminder of him in my life, which i really dont want.
So what im asking is what should i do to make the situation good on both parts? i dont want to loose her...but i also am really against this relationship. He doesnt like her in that way but i dont want her to be hurt becuase of him.
female 15 (link)
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ok tell her u dont feel right of her dating him but if she really wants too let her do it cause it is gone to be her fault if he brake her heart like he did yours
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