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All right, my friend and her boyfriend (they're both 16) have been going out for about 8 months now, and neither I nor my friends have seen much of her at all. Honestly, we get to talk to her for more than 5 minutes about once every couple weeks, and it's really getting us all down. We've tried talking to her, but it's practically impossible because she gets defensive and then drags us into an argument, instead of talking and understanding. I understand that now she's got a boyfriend who she cares about we're not going to see as much of her, but it's been taken to an extreme.
I just really don't know what to do about it. I'm really close to her, and it's getting me and my friends down. We don't want to lose her, but it's frustrating that she's dropped us for a boy. (link)
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This is a pretty common occurence. When teens first start dating, they border on obsession. If it's been 8 whole months it will most likely wear down sometime soon and she will start spending more time with friends and what not. You can also start inviting her AND her boyfriend to go do different things like go to amusement parks and movies and what not. Good luck
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