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Hi I'm Kirsten! I am 14 years old and, even though it's tough to give myself advice, I love giving it out to others and (not t be a bragger lol) but I'm pretty good at it! Ask me about just about anything. I'm especially good at relationship problems, friendship troubles, and what to wear lol. Not much you cant ask me about...so just let ur problems loose! I can usually help.
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Okay, well I am in 6th grade. Me and my best friend have been soo close through elementary school and are families are so close and we even own a beach house togehter. Well, see Through out this month we have started to grow apart. She is trying to be like her older sister (preppiesh) and like that but before she started wanting to be like her older sister she hated the way preps were and that they were retarted and stuff. Well, now she has become a prep and is being someone she isn't. She used to hate this one prep and now she is like trying to be her closet friend. I hate the way she is being. I am hopeing it is just a phase but if it isn't I think we will be spilt up and stuff. I wish I could tell her this but since we are growing apart I don't know what to do. I used do everything to be her best friend because she wanted to end the friendship but now it's different I don't know if I would really care to not be her best friend. I have a boyfriend and since this one night I haven't told her really much about him. I don't know why I want to but then there is something stopping me. I need help. She thinks I don't trust her anymore but I don't know if that is true or not?? Please help!
You need to sit her down and have a serious talk. Maybe something else is bothering her to make her want to change who she is. Does she get made fun of for not being a "prep"? (P.S. i hate labels...) Even so, you need to explain to her that you love her for who she is and that's all that should matter. In a perfect world, no one would care how anyone else dressed. OK, so it's not perfect world, but you shouldn't be split just because of that. Let her know you're worried that you two will not be friends anymore because of how you're growing apart. If she snubs you or acts like she doesn't know what you're talking about or blames the whole thing on you, she's not worth it.