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TELL ME ABOUT YOU: hello. i`m nikki. i`m just your normal thirteen year old filipino living in indiana with lots of friends, mad tennis skills, and an unofficial diagnose of ADD. i`m a naturally silly person, and i won`t lie to you on this one .. i`m pretty complicated. and i`m anything BUT shy. most people say that i`m really outgoing. you either love me, or you hate me. with me, there`s no in-betweens.




SO .. YOU GIVE ADVICE: yes, i do. i`ve been through just about anything. i`ve been in contact with backstabbers and whores. i`ve been peer-pressured, and yes .. i`ve had boy problems. i`ve suffered deaths of friends and family, and i`ve had problems as simple as finding a decent project for science fair. i mean, that`s what i`m here for. i must warn you, though .. i WILL be brutally honest with you if i have to.




DO YOU PLAY ANY SPORTS ?: i`m dedicated to one sport, and one sport only. and that is tennis. i play number one singles for the flashes tennis team, and i try to be the best player i can. i fell in love with it because it`s the only thing that won`t leave me. no matter what. i think that it`s the best sport in the world. and that will never. ever. change. i mean .. i play tennis to live. and i live to play tennis. i think that it was truly my first love. hehe.



TELL ME ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS: my friends are basically amazing. i have a lot of friends, but i only have a few best friends that i tell everything to. it`s hard for me to trust people these days, but these amazing individuals will always have my trust. and i love them all to death.




janice barnd. andrea decamp. caroline alora. tyler rogers. colin bowles. chris nolder. david gerth. justin osborne. lindsey green. sammie stanley. chessie zappia. leah hall. marshall chappell. ethan gilmer.




DO YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND ?: yes, i have a boyfriend. :] his name is david, and i love him very much. we played tennis together, and we`ve been pretty inseperable ever since.




DO YOU LIKE MUSIC ?: music is basically my life. i play the viola in the franklin township strings orchestra. and i freaking love it. i`ll like any kind of music, as long as it has a good beat and bumpin` lyrics. throw an alternative rock band cd infront of me and a pair of headphones, and i swear i`ll fall in love with it. i swear it i swear it. because like i always say. music is feelings that you weren`t able to put into words before.

advice

say someone picks on you and such.. and makes rude comments, how do you stand up for yourself? because i dont have the confidence to go and say something if they were to say something to me or my friends? how do i gain the confidence to do this or what do i say? i dont want to sould like a prissy so any tips?

wow, i HATE bullies with a passion, and i myself have dealt with them before. but i`ve been picked on enough to know almost exactly how to deal with them. first of all, don`t let them get to your head. bullies basically have no life, and they`re lame. if you can`t get anything to say, make sure you have friends with you. that`s what they`re there for - to back you up. and trust me, they`ll do their job well.

other than that, you can try to outsmart them with words. don`t make rude comments to them, but rather say something smart. usually something that makes the whole class laugh works. if you say something smart and the group of people you`re with laughs, their self-confidence goes down to the size of a ping-pong ball.

but most of all, just remember that you`ve done nothing to them. if you want to keep it short and simple, just say something like, "if you had a life, you`d stop ruining mine." and walk away. simple as that. i really hope this works out, and i hope i helped. :]

-Niks.

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