My names Zoe, Zozie is sort of an unofficial nicname, and the aunty...well, why not?
I´m 14 years old and have been living in manchester england, my entire life - obviously not counting the eeeeeeendlness trips to wales!
Saying i´m 14 may make some people think that i don´t know enough to be doing an advice column. My responce would be to that, if your close minded about who your taking advice from - then i suggest you don´t take any at all! I´ve always stood by the belief that a persons mind gives away their real age more, than a birth certificate and some hospital documents.
I´ve not exactly been through hell, fire and brimstone, but i´ve seen other people go through it, and witnessed how it affected them. And besides, i like giving advice,i like knowing that my words could possibly influence and positively help someone else. And that is why i´m doing this advice column.
God i sound like Martin Luther King.
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I have a friend with orange hair, she eats a lot and is full of energy and STICK THIN !! i hate and its so unfair, im not over weight but she does swimming like all the time and so i hate the way she thinks shes perfect!! Please rite bak i need to know how to get rid of this hate towards because she is a very close friend of mine ... (link)
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Funnily enough...i have a friend JUST LIKE THAT. Hello Anna. Go ahead and hate charlotte, just keep it between you two, i'm not getting into any arguements!! HeeHee see you in registration!
PS: I know shes so sickeningly thin! But so are you so i wouldn't worry chuck!
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how do i get chandni to come downstairs (link)
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Well...you could drag her downstairs....you could kick her, you could ask politely but that never works! Haahaa Duuuuuuuude *wraps blazer around self* apologies to anyone else reading this column, chandni is my mate and so is the insane person who wrote this question! Love ya biatch! Hahaha
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recently a friend of mine had told me she had a secret, unfortuatly she cant tell me and i respect that but when other girls act weird around me it makes me feel down , how can i ask them to stop acting weird and not think about the secret 24/7 (link)
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Asking them straight out to shut up about this secret might not be the best bet. Just do something as a group that will take your mind off this "secret". I think its really great though that you've accepted that your friend can't tell you this secret, and i think you deserve some respect yourself for that. If the distracting idea doesn't work, you can just be polite about it with something like "Look, i know this secret doesn't concern me, but can we not just forget about it and think/talk about something else? lets just do something else, its getting kinda boring now." Its your choice what you say, but this secret isn't the be all and end all of life at school. But well done for respecting your friends secrecy - thats rare!
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i have this friend and she's like my best friend here at this school i just moved to, and like she knows everything about me and what not. but like recently i've noticed that she's been copying me, like everything and it's really annoying. i mean she's super nice but also shy so i don't know how to tell her this. like my handwriting is my handwriting like it's your thing and i like my handwriting it's actually nice but i've noticed that she started copying the way i write like my n's and h's and t's! like it really bugs me! she also copies the way i hold my hands while walking and she's starting to say things like i do!i always say holy crap like as an expression and she says it too! Like before i came here she seemed to have friends but like when i became friends with her she seemed to be attached to me and i'm like the "leader" of the two of us! isn't she the one who's supposed to show me around and tell me stuff...not me? i made new friends and like i have a lot more in common with them then the ones before that i ate lunch with, with my bff, but when i went to eat lunch with my new friends she wanted to follow, like i didn't want to say no but i didn't want her to come, i know that may seem mean but like the two groups don't mix, but she came and she started comming everday so then everyday up to this day we eat lunch with my new friends but everyday she seems depressed when we eat lunch with them. she's very insecure it seems and it seems like no one really treated her as a real like member of her group before i came, like she even told me that i was the one she was the closest to in all of that table, but i'm like didn't she hang out with them for like five years...shouldn't she be good friends with at least one of them? in the beginning of the year i remember someone mentioning that she was copying them before i came. so how do i tell her that i need some space. or do i even tell her? i mentioned to my new friends that i wanted to hang out with them but being with my bff hasn't let me...sorry this was extremely long. (i have never been the "leader" of a group, we were always all equal and just had fun, and we mostly weren't shy between ourselves! AND i've noticed that i've started to become like her more and it's not the good things, the way i walk like she walks really fast because she's insecure/shy and seems like shes in a hurry all the time and i've started to do that too!) how would i deal with this situation? (link)
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I think youve answered your own question in this. You say that you never had a leader of a group and that you were all equal - thats great! Shes oviously used to the stupid school hierarchy thing,being the cloest one to her, i thin you an subtly drop hints every now and then that you thin she is just as good as everyone else (even if you dont, itll solve her jealously/copying prolem) and if she ever calls you anything like a leader, just joke and say shes as much as a leader as you are - or something along those lines! I dont really thin you needed help with this, youve pretty much got school groups sussed! Wow!
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