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* be prepared, its kinda long.
ohk, so my best friend, who i have known for about a year and a half, we've been really rocky lately.
let me explain:
she is a VERY clingy person. she will cling to 2-3 people for long periods of time. it annoys the shit outta me, but i live with it. we're friends. ive tried telling her, but whenever i try, she always gets so mad + gets VERY defensive. so wuht should i do about THAT problem?
wait, theres more.
2 weeks ago, she had a movie night, she didnt invite me, + she always does, i didnt do anything to her, i wasnt mad at her or anything, + she invited kids who she barely talked to, which i really didnt undertstand. i texted her asking her, + she was just all pissed off, so i just didnt text her anymore.
we rarely talk anymore, + if we do, its alkward. wuht should i do about THAT problem?
theres more:
++ then, we were on the bus coming back from a basketball game, this girl, asked me, "hows yer boyfriend emily?!, i said really good, and then my friend pipes in, and goes, "EW, HES SO UGLY!" + she said much more stuff about that, and i got REALLY mad. wuht should i do about THAT?
two more things:
im nothing but a friend, and a good person to her, and all she does is treat me like shit, so i told her, that ive never gotten so much disrespect from a person, no one has ever treated me with so much disrespect like she does, and that she should be ashamed of the way she treats me. was that good to say?
+ one more thing:
we are going to philladelphia, for a class trip, and i wanted to room with her, so i asked her, she said yes, and then she got put with me, and got all pissed off, because i guess she had already made arrangements with her other friends, which she didnt because i was the first one that asked her, and she keeps denying it. + she wouldn't talk to me + she got all pissed.
wuht should i do about THAT?
thats it, but from wuht i have observed, if she needs to cling to people, shes really insecure, + has low self esteem.
but, i need some help + peoples opinions.
thanks SO much everyone.
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Hey I gotta be blunt on this topic.......
First of all females are some of the most funny acting people in this world old/young it doesn't matter that are moody. I feel that your friend has lost the title of being a friend (because friends don't act like that period). You seem to be like myself.....a very loving, kind, generous individual who has some very funny acting friends in my life. I would say you need to distant yourself from this girl for a couple of weeks maybe even a month, and let her see how it feels to not have you around. And look at it like this she could be telling her so called other friends you are the clingy one, and you are always around. But trust me after they get to know what you know, they will run for the HILLS!!!!! goodluck
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