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Q: How do you tell your best friend that your in love with them? How do you explain your feelings so that your friendship isnt ruined?
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Dear "In love with my best friend, HELP PLEASE!",
OKay, this is a toughie! But totally doable. You'd be surprised how many people end up falling in love with their best friend. Before you decide to make your move, be sure that your really in love with him/her and just not in love with the idea.
Once you have that figured out, you have to weigh out your options. Yes, you could freak your friend out if you tell them and it could put an awkward atmosphere around the friendship BUT on the flip-side, you could tell them and the feeling could be mutual.
Either or, it's in my best advice that you ease this all in. I'm not so sure if it's the best thing to throw the "L" word at him/her because that may bring us to that freaked out scenario. Explain it in a more "Hey, I totally like you more than a friend" way. Suggest going out on a date maybe?
I mean, as best friends; you've done just about everything together but maybe this 90th time of going to the movies together could be a little different, ya'know?
Just know this: The truth is going to come out one-way or another so be the one to shine some light on the subject. It's okay to feel nervous, excited, maybe even queazy but just remember that, he/she is your best friend. Think of it as yet another secret you tell one another.
Crossing my fingers,
Braylen
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Q: okay, so i've know this girl since middle school and in gr.9 something happened it was a group fight 2 sides againts each other and now where not friends but the girl tht was on here side were r talking but their not talking ... so let me get to the point so im going to to a party and she's invited what do i do i kinda want to talk to her but wat if she rejects me or ignores mee and im kinda sacred of wat my friends will think ??? if i talk to her help
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Dear "Frenemies"
I know it's easier said than done but, don't fear rejection. This is your big chance to mend whatever happened in the past. Your being a real man here by stepping up to the plate and approaching her first!
IF you see her at this party, approach her, and if she just shrugs you off and ignores you. Guess what? You tried. At that point you made your move, and if she chooses not to mature up to the situation then that itself should tell you to move on pal.
As for your friends, I know how it goes. Your friends will more than likely give you grief for talking to this girl. So what, they'll forget all about it by the end of the week! My advice to you would be swallow your fear and see what happens. You may be surprised at the outcome. Sometimes it pays to be the bigger person.
Hoping for the best,
Braylen
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Hey there!
Well, as you may have guessed I am an aspiring advice columnist. I honestly care about the problems/questions/ and/or concerns you may have. Although only 22 years old I have been through a lot when it comes to the dating game. So rather you are wondering how to ask him/her out, need to some advice over a bad break up or ANYTHING related to the love/dating/relationship category by all means let me know! Anyone is welcome to send in your requests and I will answer to the best of my ability. And just remember guys, this is my opinion, my advice in the end it is your decision as to you take it or not!
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E-mail: Gender: Male Member Since: May 31, 2011 Answers: 12 Last Update: June 6, 2011 Visitors: 2132
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