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I love animals and I love to write. My parents are divorced. My father is marrying another woman. I have a dog and two rabbits as pets and soon I'll have a 'step cat'(when my dad get married). One of my rabbits died, so we got a new one. Uhh, well other things include that I'm good at writing speeches and my favorite subject in school is math. I have two siblings. I'm kinda solitary. I don't care for groups or clicks. I have friends, alot of them, but I don't enjoy being surrounded by large groups.Actually, I used to but school is wierd now and I got put in a no-friend class. IT wasn't as a punishment. I got student of the month in my class. I'm a good kid. I do girl scouts and play many sports. Well thats me. You can learn more about me though. 'Ask me a question' to find out more about me. :) ^.^ ;)

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Well i new my bff for 9 years now, and i was moved away in a different state for seven of them (but we kept in touch, i visited constintly) but now we are losing a bff style, like whenever i call she has to go, or if she doesnt she'll proply hang up on me in a few minutes anyway. i cant trust her because she always lies to me and brakes promises and tells secrets.i am really starting to dislike her, but never the less i have known her and was her bff for 9 years now, and she used to be so kind and sweet to me (its only been a year where she was rude to me) i miss her being the way she was. please help me!

I can relate, sorta. One of my friends moved away, not too far but I miss her still. For the first few years we kept in touch well, especially in the summer. Later, around the fourth year I didn't see her for, like a whole year because we just didn't find time. Well, I invite her to my B-day party every year now and we see each other alot in the summer. My advice to you is to see her face to face, for a while, and then if she doesn't seem happy or if she's aacting strange you'll know what's wrong. She might be having family problems or be sad that your far away and broken apart so she made new friends, and now she is scared they'll replace you so she won't talk to you. Hope I helped, and hope you find out why she won't talk to you much.

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There is a small group of about 4 families and we usually have these dinner get-togethers on weekends sometimes. They're usually pretty boring for me because all the kids are guys, and they're all about 4 years older than me (I'm 13/f by the way). It's our turn to have one this weekend, the 29th, and on the same day is my friend's pool party, one of the best parties of the year and me and my friends go every time. Of course I wouldn't mind skipping this get-together for the party, but it just happeneds to be my mom's birthday the same day, so we're atchually inviting a lot of families, some including a few of my friends. I was planning on leaving my house at 9 (they usually last from about 7-12am) and going to the party, but I don't want to leave my friends hanging, and I know it'll be boring for them if I leave. I don't think I can take them to the party because they go to different schools and they're definatly not the type who will like this kind of party (trust me). I know it sounds selfish, but I REALLY want to go to this party, I haven't done much for the past few weekends. Sorry this is so long, but Which one should I go to?

I may not be an expert, but I'd say go to your mom's party. It's her birthday: the one day of the year she gets to lay back and have fun: her day. You can go to your friends house any time, and sure it may not be her party but at least you'll get to hang out with her. As for your mom, this one day make her happy. I mean really, how much time do you think she has between work, chores, driving kids everywhere, and everything else? Make her happy today(or on the 29), she deserves it.
Hope I helped :)

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Okay, well i have to do a speech, and im doing it on how girls are just terriably mean to eachother with the backstabbing, and the calling of names such as "whore, slut, skank.. ect" and everything else that has to do with bullying. if anyone has any stories about their lives and being bullying by other girls please comment me. or e-mail me on xobabicakesox@hotmail.com
thanks so much
ashley

Sure, I have a story for ya. I don't know if this is exactly what ur looking for though: There is a girl in my grade who's 'special'(mentaly challenged). These two girls who are real jerks always say that she's stupid and a retard(sp?) all the time. I don't think she understands why they say that but she does think they're mean, and cries when they taunt her. She even had to move lunch tables to avoid them. She is the sweetest girl but she is always bullied. I try standing up for her, but you know how bullies are. They never give up.

Hope I helped :). -An Honest Soul.

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