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Hi my name is Allison and im 14 years old and i love to shop go to movies and just hang out with my friends. PICTURES COMMING SOON My best frineds are Hannah, Meredith, and Amanda!

Sitting there with an empty canvass
Waiting for a picture to appear
Then suddenly you see a rose
But then it smears
It wont stop growing
Suddenly you realize that your painting with a blade
And your canvass is your wrist
And thats not a rose
Its all the stress and tears that you hold inside hoping that maybe you can still fit in with the crowd.
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Written by and about one of my best friends!

Okay that is really weird and like totally depressing and its really kinda scary...but if you need help i will always be there for you!
IM me at Sour Sweetie 25
E-mail me at TragicLullaby92@aol.com
E-mail: TragicLullaby92@aol.com
Gender: Female
Age: 14
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hey.... ill use fake names to make it easier to understand.. in 6th grade me ashley and courtney were best friends. i liked courtney more then ashley. but then courtney moved to houston now she has a new best friend and i guess you can say that im really really jealous to her. and now i feel like courtney likes her new friend and ashley more then me. ive been trying sooo hard to keep our friendship going but its been really hard because i havent seen her in almost a year... and i guess you could say that i want her all to myself and that im selfish because i am... but i dont want her to love any other friend as much as she does me WHAT DO I DO??? should i just forget about her and find new friendS and give up on her?? im sick of thinking about it all the time and im sick of crying about all of it!! PLEASE HELP ME!! (link)
Hey well if she lives in a diffrent city then she is of course gonna have other best friends but that doesnt mean she doesnt still consider you one of her best friends. Maybe you should plan a trip up there to strengthen your relationship. Also you may think your crying because of her new best friend but you might just be crying because you miss her. Try talking to her more and maybe if you feel confortable about it try confronting her about it. But i really think a trip up there would really help things...also when your up there maybe you should meet her "new best friend" and maybe you wont hate her as much...what do you know yall might even become friends. Just try talking more
HOPE I HELPED
ALLISON


hey alison wats ^.. well i have this friend he name i am gonna leave anomus. well ive know her 4 like my whole life and and she lies 2 me ALOT! and its getting really annoying and ive tried talking 2 her but its impossible her reply is" i was just joking i joke and kidd alot." and i no thats not the truth. alison, help me idk wat 2 say 2 her and i luv her 2 death but its getting anoying. thx alot babe u rox! lylals and i bet u no who this is! lol! (link)
Next time she lies to you tell her that you dont appreciate it and if she says i was just joking tell her that when she "jokes" it annoys you or that you dont appreaciate the way she jokes around with you and tell her that you dont like her sense of humor and when she lies to you, you dont find it funny. If that doesnt work try ignoring it but if that doesnt work try giving her a taste of her own medicne and that will probably make her realize what she is putting you through.
HOPE I HELPED
ALLISON


I have this friend and she lied about her age on the website that she made up... how shouold I confront her about it? (link)
Just start a conversaition about her website and then ease into a conversation about her age and tell her how you feel about it or you could just come right out and say it however you want to handle the situation but it all depends your personality and your friends remember dont hurt her feelings
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ALLISON


ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her (link)
Well just keep going to scary movies and you might eventually get over them...thats what alot of claustorphobic, sorry cant spell, people do but in the mean time until you get over your fear a scary movie might not b the best dating movie for you try a comedy or something when your with a girl.


I have a problem with opening up to my friends. I've been a big flirt for like my whole life! I even won biggest flirt at my middle school. But I havent really DONE anything if you know what I mean. Like I kissed but didnt make out. ANYWAYS i have two best friends and they havent done that either! But I have a secret. I actually have gone farther than that a couple times... I'm not comfortable telling them about it because they asked me what happened when "john" came over to my house and I told them NOTHING! so then they would know I lied to them. I dont want any answers saying something like "be honest cuz thats the best" blah blah blah!
I just dont know what to do.... (link)
Well its your buisness and if you dont want to tell them then you shouldnt. But if you ever to decide to tell them or it "accidently" comes up and they figure out that you have been holding back/lying to them just tell them that its your buisness and that you didnt have to tell them if you didnt want to and they should understand. Also if its still your beliefe that they havent gone farther you never know they could b doing the same thing that you are. So just keep it to yourself if you dont want them to know.


My best friend who i spend almost every waking moment w/ has terrible mood swings. One minute she is totally happy and nice and stuff and then all of the sudden she freekz out and starts screeming at me i dont know how to tell her she can be like EVIL! shes crazy
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hey sweetie it could be the whole desease thing like everyone is saying but like you said you spend every waking moment together. Well i had that same problem like two years ago you've become so close to that friend that you need some time apart. This may sound totally stupid but its almost like you have become so close that you feel like sisters and your not afraid to fight anymore becuase you know that any fight cant ruin a relation ship as close as the one you have. So take a little time away from each other and then maybe you guys wont fight as much. But give you're self a break and get some new friends and hang out with a varitey of diffrent people.




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