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ok so my best friend and i have feelings for each other and I told him how I felt and he told me how he felt. We want to get together but he has a GF so we are just friends.Well he went off to collage and last night he came back. Well We met u pand he was with his GF. Well every 5 seconds he wanted me to hug him and I didnt feel right about it so finnaly I huged him and his GF gave me a dirty look. then after that every 5 seconds he gave her a kiss right infront of me. It hurt me sooo bad so I left without saying good bye and went to the school dance and all my freidns were there so I tried to have a good time but he was on my minde the hole time
Well, to me it sounds like he is trying to make both of you jealous. He is begging you to hug him to make his girlfriend jealous, and he is kissing her over and over in front of you to make you jealous. When guys make girls jealous they feel like they are cool, like all the girls want them and they are just this awesome person, when really, they are just acting like tools. If I were you I would forget about this guy. Any guy that really wants you would be with you, not some other girl. And they certainly wouldn't be doing things they know would hurt you like kissing another girl in front of you. You don't need him. Find a better guy. Though most people don't believe it, there are good guys out there.
The only person I have left to talk to after everything I've been through...my best friend.
Well, I keep waiting for her to get up and leave like everybody else did. She's away at the moment (like on vacation away) and I wanted so badly to talk to her because I feel like I'm drowning over here. So she never called me back until finally today. I wanted just to pour my guts out to her, but lately when something's bothering me, I just physically can't talk about it. I can't form into words what I'm trying to say. I don't know why, I just can't. So I was trying to tell her but I just kept getting more and more frustrated (mainly with myself) so then I lashed out at her. I hung up on her (something I've never done before in my life), and then she tried calling back but I wouldn't pick up. I was just upset and felt deflated and ugh. And it wasn't even her fault. It was all my fault for getting mad at her and I feel awful about it. And when I feel awful about something, I go to her. But the thing is, I actually don't want to go to her. I almost feel like I don't have the energy to go to her and explain why I'm so upset all the time. Because I don't have the energy to find out why myself.
It's so confusing. Like, what I just typed up there, I could never say. It's easier to type something out than say it, but even then I'm not telling the whole thing because I can't organize my thoughts to just spit it out.
Sorry if this got annoying.
I know exactly how you feel. I've been in pretty much the same position. Just remember this. I know it sounds cliche, but it will pass. It's mainly just teen angst. In a week or so you will probably forget it, and in a few years it won't matter anyway. Just do your best to cope. In the long run, it doesn't matter.