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My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(
*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ (link)
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hey amYy. this is a pretty hard question. let's see...the first thing you need to make sure your friend knows is that no matter what, she will always be beautiful in god's eyes! he loves her exactly how she is. and he created her to be everything she is! i don't know if you are a christian, or not, but either way, everyone needs to pray, and everyone needs to know that eating disorders are VERY dangerous! it's hard to talk to someone that thinks that they are doing the only possible thing to look beautiful. so you are right when you say that you need to be careful. explain to her that you care about her very much and don't want her to get hurt but you feel that puking isn't a very healthy way to make her self feel more confident. tell her how beautiful you think she is already. tell her how much you love her. tell her all of that. and if she still doesn't want to change what she is doing, then pray! everyone needs to pray. and prayer is ALWAYS helpful! god will never turn his back on you. no matter how much you feel you have screwed up. he will always love you!!! no matter what! don't just ignore this. be consistant. because you need to make sure that your friend understands how much danger she is in! this could hurt her very much. so don't let her just do it. make sure that you are always reminding her how beautiful she is, and how dangerous it is to puke daily! i'll pray too!!!good luck with your friend, amYy...((**mAlloRyJaNe**))
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I am starting college in September, seeing I will be meeting a whole bunch of new people and not knowing that many of them. Any ideas of how I can get a lot of friends? (link)
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a great way to make friends is to be yourself. then everyone you meet will know the real you and you won't be 'faking life'. the ONLY way you can make friends is to be yourself. if they don't meet the real you, then they aren't really your friend. so yeah. all i can say, is be yourself. truthfully live life to the fullest, by being yourself! ((**mAlloRyJaNe**))
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