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i am in middle school and i am a girl so here are my questions that i have for you. there is this guy at my school and he likes me and i like him, but he just does not want to hook up with me. why is this? he doesnt even talk to me or anything. what should i do to make him talk to me? i want to flirt with him but i just dont know how. he is the shy type and that is why we never talk to each other at school or at pratice. what should i do? how do i make him like me more and how do i get him and i to flirt with me again? (link)
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whenever that happens w/ one of my friends, we plan a group hangout. it might be a trip to the movies and an after-time pizza, or a sport-fest. this way you won't be shy of talking to him, and also, you can find out some of his interest. the next time you see him in school, you can talk about the events and maybe try some flirting.
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I have so much on my plate right now. With the current school year ending soon i am applying for scholorships, running for vice-prez of my high school class, and dealing with all the extra school work. we have to write lots of essays, and do finals and stuff. I also have responsiblities at my church i am responsible for, and I'm cast in a play that will be opening in early june. Right now i'm also PMSing so i'm in physical pain with cramps and stuff and i'm in a really bad mood. I also get ance pretty bad sometimes... i use proactive, but right now i'm really breaking out and it's affecting my self esteem. i have too much to do each day, so i often dont get enough sleep. I also procastinate... alot. I have put soo much pressure on myself to get a 4.0 Gpa this sememster or at least mantain my 3.9, but i'm soo scared that i'll get below that. I'm a prefectionist and i get stressed easily. my room is a mess and i never have any time to clean it, so my parents are harping on me for that... and my other chores at home are lacking. I also feel like everyone in my life is changing, and becoming different. and i feel like i have no one to talk to. i'm going into high school next year, and i'm soo scared.. but i dont have anyone to talk to about it because i dont like letting people know my feelings, and i have trust issues when it comes to what i am really feeling and thinking. Anyways i just needed to get this off my chest and maybe talk to someone. and see if anyone has any advice about what to do to lessen my stress level, help me not procrastinate, stuff with my friends, and parents... or something. just umm help, please!!!! thanks soo much! i appreciate it, and this was long so thanks for even reading it!
-Dealing with life (13/f) (link)
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i have a friend who is EXACTLY like you, exceot for the VP part. e-mail me @ (pey_mathews@yahoo.com) and i can pass you my friend's e-mail (not put here for security) and u can chat and ask her how she got through it.
Also: most likely, people are not changing, it's just you that is becoming more mature that you see them through a different view. if you feel like you don't have any one to talk to or you need to talk to someone new, find chat rooms online. they can be fun and they can't judge you about your "past". i do it as therapy :)
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okay im in middle schooland i have absolutly no motivation for school.. i go b.c of my friends i used o love it last year but now its totaly is boring.. and all the work is WAY to easy..and i HATE all my teachers..and they rely dont like me ..the whole gothic thing they dont like it.. what should i do? (link)
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ask around, chalenge classes, take honor/AP classes. there's options to make it more challenging. just ask ur teachers
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