about

I'm Heather and I can only be myself, I'm sorry if thats hell for you. I hate writing about myself. I've been through hell & back with my own life, I can come off as a bitch, but the honest truth is I'm saying what I think, being honest & truthful. 13 year olds coming on here asking about how to spice up your sex life, go play with some barbies. Girls wasting your time coming to ask if your pregnant, go get a damn EPT test instead of wasting others times. On the other hand, I am almost 100 percent positive I can help you with anything. I'm almost sure to answer the same night also.



Oh, and I also don't care what you guys rate me. I'm here to help people, not be rated. You can either listen to my adivce, or go get some different advice.

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skool isnt out until june 13th but rite now there is a topless pic of me going around. WHAT DO I DO!?
-- PANIC

Just chill. Their isn't anything you can do but hope it stops spreading, if people come up to you, don't lie tell them it was an honest mistake. & if you're worried about your parents finding out somehow, let them know so you don't get in more trouble for knowing & not telling. best of luck, leave another inbox if you need more!

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when does ur summer start and when do you go back?
just comparing your skool to ourss

We got out May 23rd, and go back August 13th. :/
Have a great summer!

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im a freshmen in highschool and my best friend is rele fake to me. idk what 2 do she lies to me. she has a boyfriend and she does stuff she promises to me she wouldnt. i cant stand changes and today i was home alone and thought about sucide with my dads gun. wut do i do i cant take it ne more

Honestly, It sounds like your "best friend" is a fake friend. You should be able to figure that out, on your wwn. If she lies about stuff just don't ask her questions anymore and you won't know shes lying. If you serisouly think about sucidie over a fake best friend, you need to go talk to someone professinal. Just stop being her friend, and hang out with your other friends. But if you're sucidial, you need to talk to someone professinal, I can't help you with that besides saying don't, which most people won't listen to anyways. I'd advise you to acutally go to someone, not a school couslar, most of the time they will just call your family, or not help. Keep me updated; best of luck.

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sending an inbox to uu
ok long story short, im in high school now & my bff treats me like shit. she calls me stuff. shes fake behind my back. she tells ppl my stuff. she messages ppl about me & our fights. she is 2 faced. always hiding texts. & just flat out fake.

ha. sounds like someone i know. (:
fuckkk her . sorry but leave her ass dudee she isn't worth your time.

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0OKK. S0O iN EiGHTT GRADE i T.P.EDD A TEACHER AND i GOT CAUGHTT, AND HE WAS A TEACHER AT MY MiDDLE SCHOOL. SO i HADDA GO TO COURT & NOW i AM iN 10TH GRADEE AND i WANNA GO ViSiT MY FAVORITE TEACHER THERE AT THAT SCHOOL BUT iM SCARED HE WiLL SAY SOMETHiNG TO MEE. iiDNN WHAT TO DO. SHE WAS MY FAV. TEACHERR NDD* HELPEDD ME WiTH EVERYTHiNGG. WHAT DO i DO ?

First off , learn how to type, Sorry but if you're in 10th grade, grow up & learn how to type a little more decent. Forget the one teacher, ingore him & walk past him. Teachers realyl aren't alloud to say anything. Just go visit the one you want to see, I'd make sure it's okay to first, then Go visit her and don't do anything to piss the one teacher off. (:

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i live in mo & im a junior in highschool . i want a job in nursing, & i need a college with a cheap pricee. can u help me?

Yeah, Nichols Career center [Their is only 34 teachers, extreamly small center.] In Jefferson City, Missouri You would go there for about a year, & it's about 9,000 dollars; Then Lincoln for about 2-4 years. You can call them & request info, which I did Wednesday & It came yesterday. Hope this was something you were looking for. Best of luck finding a great college! =]

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omgg . im in 8th grade & im goin to highschool next year and year my friends r going but im kinda slower then them and we've been bffs since 6th grade and everythign is gonna change everyone is gonna turn diff. & fake and its just gonna sucks. im going from a one floor school to almost 4 and im scared shitless about the older kids . im jus sad about going there and losing EVERYONE because people have to change ....
i love your advice. i wish i went to ur skool but i dont live in missouri

Aww, going from middle school to highschool isn't as bad as it seems. Your highschool seems big, but just bring your scedual with you about a week before school, and go look for different ways to get to classes on your first day. & by the way, teachers don't get mad if you're late, the fist few days. For the friends part- People come & people go. You will meet SO many new friends. (: Just keep the old ones. The close ones stay, the fakes leave. People do change, I'm not going to lie, you probably will to, but it's alright. The older kids don't mess with you , at all. The worst thing I was called was fresh-shit, with a bunch of girls & it isn't bad. Everyone is busy with their own stuff & then after the first week they could care less about you. Thanks, I try. [ ♥ ]

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me and mii teacher dont get along ne more and i cant stand his class ne more . wut do i do
i have no teachers off that block besizedss my case mangerrrrrr

Uhmm. Why don't you talk to your cousler at school or even your case manager. Your case manager would probably be glad to take you and work with you on other homework if she's off, my case manager isn't off that block but she comes down to visit me. I don't know how to help you. You answered the question yourself. Just talk to your case manager & teacher at the same time, & see if you can get your problem resolved. Best of Luck. [ ♥ ]

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ok well im still in highschool and i graduate in 2010 but im trying to get ahead of the game and get things figured out now and not have to worry so much about it when the time comes. Because ive never planned ahead and its left me with a bad life so far well not bad but not amazing so im trying this and hoping it works....
anyway im hoping to go to a college in Iowa cuz thats where i live where i can learn to become a pediatric nurse.

i need to know all the steps i will have to go through to get there.
&
and maybe mention a college in IOWA that has what iwould like to major in and become

i would also like to get the highest amount of schooling to make things better for me in the long run if you could help me out a bit..

Thanks :D

I know you can email, or call the college you want to go to go & request info about it, what you need to get in & everything. I'm only a freshmen in highschool and I did that this past weekend and got info in the mail and on email already. And for the highest amount of school- try turtoing, or staying with a teacher. [ ♥ ]

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what is up with everyone HAVING to have sex like what is wrong with just waiting until ur married i cant stand it like all my friends think its cool 2 do it like every weekend i sent u a request on myspace btw

I complety agree with you. This wasn't advice really but I agree 100%. The only thing I have to say is don't crack under - pressure . Give your husband a gift when you get married. :] [ ♥ ]

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so i have to construct a scene from a book. i choose to pick faking 19. im going to do a boardwalk scene(like at the beach with a ferris wheel and cute little shops). im just not quite sure how to do that? like should it be in a shoe box? im not sure any advice would be great.
thanks!

A shoe box with colored sceen would look really neat. Not much help for you from me, sorry but your idea was what I would say if you wouldn't have gave an idea. Try the shoebox , but come up with other projects to make to. Best of luck. [ ♥ ]

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u dont know me but i have a big problem im in slower classes and teacher with extra teachers . my close friends are all in advance classes and they call themesleves stupid around me and i feel so stupid. their sitting in advanced classes and passing tests . im sitting here in pre everything and flunking everything. i cant seem to remember anything for tests . teachers dont beleive me that i study and once i heard a teacher chuckle at my test when he gave it back to me. how do i tell my friends to stop saying thyre stupid when they have stright a's , never had an D or F in their life and then how do i tell myself im not stupid i just have to push myself and everything. then my best friend is amazing at soccer and she keeps telling me she wont make the team how do i tell her she will make it instead of me shes so annoying she calls herself stupid and she has stright a.s and shes rele good at soccer. im so sad i just hate being me.. nothing i do in school is good enough.... i love your adviceyou have like 3 pages in a few weeks.


I know I don't know you, and that's fine. I have the same thing going on with one of my friends right now. First off don't think your stupid just because you take slower classes, I'm in two myself and they aren't stupid. People don't get that. We do the same stuff, the teacher just explains it better so we understand it more then them. Don't take it offensive when your friends say that. Tell them to be quiet, you don't want to hear about it, or if they are annoying you that bad, walk away. Go find frieinds in your classes. I can't help you pass tests, but why don't you stay after with your teacher and study with them? Most will take the time for students, not all, but most. I do the same things on test,
I'll study and as soon as I see it I will forget everything. But most homework you do out of class and in class, covers you for the test. Tell your friends, let them know your sick of it and it bothers you when they do that. Or even walk away so you don't start drama. You aren't stupid. The only reason someone has the right to call you stupid is because you don't try, or you give up. No one is really "stupid." They just don't try as hard as they can/should. Just push yourself harder. Come home study for about 30 minutes, have a snack then DO the homework. If you have questions, call a friend or 2. Ingore the friend, it seems like she just wants attention from people, and that is what she's getting. Don't put yourself down, run your butt of during tryouts and show someone you CAN do it. If you make it be pround for you, not her. If she makes it and you don't, tell her congrats and don't feel down about it. Everyone is good at something. As long as you try your best, you're perfect in school. Thanks , hope I helped![ ♥]

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i miss my best friend
she died in a car crash about a year ago
i cant take it ne more im crying so hard still
i havent gone ne where since she died and i dont eat plz i wish i could just bring her back !!

I'm really sorry to hear that. First off, start going places. Get things off your mind; hang out with other friends and think of the good times with her. Vist the grave once a week if she was burried; and plant flowers. Don't give up and start to hurt yourself; or think anything bad of yourself, always remember she's watching you in Heaven. Don't give up and always remember, other people love you. [ ♥ ]

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