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okay i am 14/f in case it matters
okay well you see, my cousins from arizona came up for christmas and new years to visit us. one is 16 and the other is 22. well they came up and they were staying at my grandmas hosue. well i wanted to hang out with them so i figured id spend the night (by the way both of my cousins are guys). anyways so i got there and my grandparents werent there. my cousins said that they went to dinner 2 hours away at some really fancy returaunt. well, they took me upstairs and they told me to sit ont the bed. they started kissing me and slowy putting their hands down my pants and up my shirt. since i had never had a real boyfriend befor they told me that they were only showing me what to expect when i had one. so thye kept doing all this stuff to me and made me do some weird stuff to them and practically forced me to have sex with them.
i know its wrong and that i should tell someone one but what wiill people say when i tell them i had sex with my cousins? please help me idont know what to do =(
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First off, I want to tell you that being a lesbian has nothing to do with this at all. Also, a lot of victims leave a situation like this feeling guilty and thinking that it was their fault. You are a victim of sexual abuse and it is not your fault. They forced you to do it and they are older and more responsible than you. Now, I don't know if you have ever read a Chicken Soup book, but go to the library and check out Chicken Soup for the Kids Soul. Once you have that book, I want you to read the story titled Get Help Now, written by Tia Thompson, Just so you have an idea of how bad it can get. You need to tell someone about it. Tell anyone who will listen. And you don't have to say it like "I had sex with my cousins". Because literally, you didnot have sex with your cousins. It is not real sex if you do not have a say in the matter. In this case, they had the say in the matter and you had no say. You need to understand that you were sexually abused by your cousins. You need to tell someone that you were "sexually abused". You need to tell anyone who will listen. Not everyone will listen. But keep talking until someone listens. Eventually someone will listen. You have other advicenators listening and giving you advice. But keep talking until you get justice. Tia Thompson messed her life up when she didnot talk. And once she talked, it got better, slowly but surely it will get better for you. Now go out there and talk to someone about it and if you need some guidence, don't be scared to send me an e-mail or instant message or offline message. halfbloodprince123087@yahoo.com
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I am completely confused about what I am. In regards to religion. I know i am christian, but I know nothing about it. I have never read the bible..and I know that most of the stuff in it I don't truly believe. And does God look down upon me for choosing not to believe parts of the bible? (link)
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