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Q: sometimes i feel like doing my life over again... but if i could i probably wouldn't make the same mistakes.. but allot of people say i would.. is that true??? and if i could do it... would i have met the same people
Well If You Had The Chance To Do Your Life Again You Would Probably Avoid The Mistakes You Made In Your Past Life But Also You Would Probably Make Other Mistakes.

You Cant Go Through Life And Not Make Any Mistakes. Because If That Was The Case There Would Be Nothing To For Us To Learn From.

I Believe That Your Life Has A Path. If You Do Your Life Again You May Take A Different Path. This May Lead You To Meet Different People That You Didnt Meet In Your Past Life.

You Dont Need To Do Your Life Over Again. If You Have Made Mistakes Then The Most Important Question To Ask Yourelf Is Not "Can I Do My Life Over". It Is "Have I Learnt From My Mistakes". If The Answer Is "Yes" Then You Dont Need To Ask This Question.

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Q: Ok.. I'm 13.. And i made a promise to God that i was going to stay a virgin until marriage... But i think about sex sometimes.. I never think about doing it, just.. you know... But does that make me a bad Christian? Its hard to not think about it when people my age are already losing their virginity... I don't want to be like that... It's wrong.. People my age are always joking about it and saying when they're 16 they are gonna lose theirs and stuff... But I think this is wrong... Also, what is all of the meaning behind a purity ring and how can i get one? Also, what is masturbation? I think anything about sex is wrong... Not just intercourse like some people... I am not going any farther than kissing... And i don't want to have thoughts or anything.. But i need to know what masturbation is. Thnx!!!
That Is So Good That You Made A Promise And You Stick To It. It Shows Alot Of Self Control, I Hope You Keep It Up.

You Cant Control Your Thoughts, And No Matter What Anyone Says Everyone Wonders About Sex Before They Are Married But As Long As You Dont Act Upon It You Are Not Doing Anything Wrong.

Masturbation Is Basically Sexually Pleasuring Yourself. But You Shouldnt Really Do That Either At Such A Young Age.

A Purity Ring Is A Ring That Basically Shows You Are Pure And You Will Stay That Way Until Your Married.

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Q: 14/f
freshman

i am a christian.
i have been serving god all my life.
and i have had plenty of christian and non-christian friends.
i try not to talk about religion a lot because i dont want to push my friends away.
i am not a rebel or emo or anything, but lately i have been wondering if i am two different people.
i love god with all my heart.
and that will never change, but i recently told my friend about my releigion and she said she had no idea that i was christian. does that mean that i dont act like a christian.
i go to church every other sunday, i read the bible and i love singing praise songs, and pray. but my friends didn't know that i did anything like that.
how can i be chirstian in front of my friends without pushing them away???


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Dont Worry You Are Not Living Two Lives, Like You Said You Dont Talk About It To Your Friends That Often. So It Wasnt That You Was Not Being Christian, It Just Means You Didnt Want To Push It On Your Friends, Which Is Good As Other People Might Not Want To Believe.

You Can Only Try Your Best To Persuade People To Believe But They Do Have The Right To Believe What They Want. You Will Always Know In Your Heart That You Love God And That Is What Makes You A Christian "Loving God" And You Dont Need To Talk About It All The Time To Know That. As Long As You Keep The Faith.

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Q: Any interesting (first hand) stories about Ouija boards? Do they seem to actually work, or have any results? Are there certain rules you should follow?

We've got one in my house, but it must be at least thirty years old. I don't know if that counts for anything, but yeah.

Thanks for any help!
-Jess.
Well I Have Personally Never Used One But I Have Heard That They Are Not Something That You Mess With When You Dont Know What You Are Doing. It Has Also Been Said That The Ouija Board Creates A Portal That Evil Spirits Can Pass Through And Get Into Your Home. On The Other Hand Some People Have Great Success With The Ouija Board, But You Have To Consider All The Possibilities.

The Only Interesting Story I Know About The Ouija Board Is That My Grandmother Used One When She Was Younger And She Told Me That They Do Work But Never To Use One As She Had A Really Bad Expirience During A Session When The Glass She Used As A Message Indicator Flew Off The Table And Smashed, This Scared My Grandmother Very Much As She Did Not Really Know What She Was Doing.

It Is Your Choice If You Want To Use It Or Not All I Can Say Is Be Careful.

This Is A Good Site To Look At..

http://www.museumoftalkingboards.com/WebOuija.html

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