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Hey guys :] My name's Hannah. I enjoy giving people advice and I'm very open to taking it as well. I know asking for advice isn't exactly the easiest thing in the world but don't be afraid. If you don't ask questions, some things never get sloved. No, I won't judge you or think your crazy based on what you ask me, so feel free to ask anything you want. I'm here to help! :] I tend to tell exactly what I feel or think because answering your questions honestly is important. But, if I happen to offend you in any way, please let me know. My goal is not to hurt your feelings. It's to help you with things you can't solve on your own. :] I'm not going to be on all day every day but I will do my best to answer your questions asap. :]
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Dear Hannah,
I just found out a bunch of stuff about someone very close to me. This stuff isn't really the best stuff to find out. I wish the person told me face to face instead of me finding out from other people. I try not to believe some of it but the it just keeps getting worse. I'm down to the point where i cried myself to sleep thinking about it. I wish I could talk to this person about everything but it's to hard for me to talk about without tearing up considering it's very serious. I just hope that common sence will sink in soon before something that they can't take back happens. I can't look at this person the same way anymore...please help Hannah.
sorry it's taken so long to get back to you. like i said, i rarely check this but i promise to be more diligent. Well, if it is really that serious and affects you in such a powerful way, my suggestion to you would be to talk to them about it face to face. Maybe them seeing you so upset will make them realize just how serious the situation is and how it is affecting you so much. If you feel you can't talk to them in person, try calling them and talking to them over the phone, that way it doesn't exactly put you on the spot. regardless of how you decide to bring it up, you need to talk to them about it as soon as possible. the faster you act on it the faster the problem will be solved. I hope everything works out. -Hannah
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SO0 iM BiSEXUAL && i CAME OUT iN JANUARY T0 THE W0RLD ;; i DidNT TELL ANYONE iN MY FAMiLY BUT MY COUSiN SiNCE i TRUSTED HER BUT SHE TOLD EVERY SiNGLE FAMiLY MEMBER ...i DONT THiNK THEY ACCEPT ME ...WHAT SHOULD i D0 ?!
Well, first of all, I think you should confront your cousin and let her know that you confided in her and what she did by telling the rest of your family was really wrong. I also think you should talk to your closest family member, (whether it be your mom, dad, brother/sister, etc.) and ask them how they feel about the situation. Question them as to why it makes them uncomfortable or whatever it is they're feeling. Let them know that it isn't a big deal. You're still the same person but your sexual orientation has changed. Maybe it has just come as a shock to them and it's "out of the ordinary" but give it some time for them to adjust. I think that over time they'll realize you're still you, regardless of what gender you're attracted to. Hopefully they'll come around. Hope I was able to help! xxo Hannah :)
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