My name is Crystal. I love my friends, and I love my family. I'm straight edge, and young. I believe in making your OWN choices, and making your own faults. I believe in fun without drugs, or alcohol. I represent x lion x youth x. I'm a kid, and that's what makes me happy. Sometimes I say I hate it, but in all honestly... this will be my favorite years, and I'll look down on them and be able to say I was content as a child. Family, Friends, Fun, Love, Happiness, Hardcore, Straight edge.
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First off, i appreciate anyone who can answer this. second, this is going to be somewhat long but here goes nothing:
On saturday my mom told me my boyfriend could come over. she wasn't home for 30 minutes and he came over during that time which she said she was fine with as long as we don't go upstairs to my room. But we went up there. while we were up there we had sex for the first time and while we were doing it, she came home. so we raced downstairs and acted like nothing happened. and she didn't suspect one thing at all. then the next day *sunday*, one of my friends called me and asked if i had sex with my boyfreind. i told her yes along with the story. while i was telling the story my mom picked up the other phone line and heard EVERYTHING. she knows now and is calling me a slut, and trash. now she is telling me i am not allowed to see my boyfriend ever again and if he steps foot into this house she will call the police because he's 18 i'm 16 and still a minor. so i guess she could have him arrested for him having sex with a minor.
i still want to continue to see my boyfriend but now we are going to have to sneak around. i know that isn't right but that's the only way we can see each other. any advice on what i can do to get my mom to let me see him without her freaking out and calling me a slut??? (link)
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I'm actually in the same position as you are, cept the age differences are even more intolerable.
In most states 16 is the age of consent, try checking that before you talk to your mom.
Sit down and tell her that it was your first time, and if it did tell her that it meant something, and you weren't just putting out.
Of course though, your mom would be pissed. She could have said that out of spite as my dad did to me. Just talk to her, no lies, or anything. Give her the truth, and maybe even her trust will regain.
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Ok, this may sound wierd but...I don't love my family. Yea...it's true. I find it so hard to realate and connect with them. We rarely communicate outside of yelling and complaining. I do want a family that I can come home to every day and feel comfortable with but...I don't think they're going to change. How do I make us closer? (13/f) (link)
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Someone earlier this week told me how much I'll realize I need my family once I'm older.
My family is a pain in the ass, we get in fights a lot, we argue too much, and complain about everything and nothing.. But there is still a bunch of love in this house.
Once you hit your twenties, you'll probably realize just how much you needed your family, and once all your friends are gone and off to college, all you have left is them.
It's hard to get a long with people that annoy you, or someone that disrespects you. Give them a talk, give them respect, help around the house, don't snap at them.
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