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[A]ge: 13
[B]irthday: June 18th
[C]olor(s): Red, Black, Pink
[D]ream boy: Mah bf Chris ~lol~
[E]ducated at: ~!RMS!~
[F]riends (best): Jessica
[G]reatest things: Friends, Movies, Hangin out, Etc
[H]appiest moment: um..i have alot
[I]m always: HYPER
[J]ealous of: no one
[K]issed?: Yes
[L]ocation: FL
[M]ood: HYPER
[N]ame: Loryn
[O]bbsession: BOYZ
[P]izza: BACON (ya weird i know)
[Q]uestion: Who r u?
[R]andom: WEASELS
[S]ecret?: shhhh! cant tell u its a secret
[T]alent: IM UNCORDINATED
[V]ery best thing about me: My friends are the most important thngs to me (does that count)
[W]orst thing about me: Dont get me pissed!!!
[X]es: :-X
[Y] you’re you:and who else would i be??
[Z]odiac: Gemini

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When I was 12 years old, I was raped, and became pregnant. I never told my daughter how she was conceived. She is 13 years old, and I just found out that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend's father kicked him out of his house as a result. Abortion is out of the question. We have to decide whether my daughter and her boyfriend will raise the baby themselves or allow me to adopt the child. So I have three questions.

1. How do I tell my daughter the truth about how she was conceived?

2. Should I allow her boyfriend to move in with us, and if so, is it okay to make them sleep in seperate rooms? (His only other option is to move out of the country with his mother.)

3. Do you think it would be better for my daughter to raise her child or should I adopt the baby? (I was unable to have any other children.)

Sorry so long, but any advice would be appreciated. (link)
1) tell her but let her know as gently as possible and reassure her that u love her sooo much
2)you should let the bf move in and sta in seperate rooms cuz well theyre too young if u ask me but like yaaa and its good hes intrested with the baby

3)let them raise the child and if they cant then u should adopt it


My 12 year old cousin is going through puberty. She has always been a tomboy and she's disgusted with the whole process. To make matters worse she is developing rapidly (she's already a C-cup), and she started her period. She is normally a very happy person, but has become very depressed. She wears layered clothes and big sweatshirts, in the summer, to hide the changes of her body. Is there anything I can say or do to make her transition any easier?

(I've already tried telling her that it's normal and all girls go through it, but that didn't help.) (link)
like tell her or let her know how much fn it is NOT being a tomboy as well


wat is bipolar (link)
its like when u start to have random really bad moodswings that are triggered by something (it can be anything) becuz of maniac depression


My moms over protective what should i do? (link)
just tell her that you are getting older and she needs to let you grow b/c as you get older you will want to move out and she cant be on your case all the time


~*Hey I have this problem with my cuzin. She is now 14. She thinks she is better than every1 else...she even told me that once. She dresses like a slutt...most ppl call her 1. She wears skirts that don't cover her a**, and shirts that go just bellow her breasts. Every where I go wit her guys r always starring. She always brings me down, and told me that she was ready to have sex!!! She is turning anirexic(food disorder). I wish I could help her. All she does is tell me how much she thinks I wanna be like her. I just don't understand I love and care for her and she treats me like this. I've tried asking her whats wrong, and she just calls me a loser and walks away. Pls help wit my problem*~ (link)
omg! my cuzin used to be just like that when she was 14 and now shes 17 and expecting a baby next month so yaaa u might wanna get her help cuz b4 she was pregnant she smoked (pot & cigs) and did alchohol and it took er this long t realize all the crap she did


my sister lets call her sally is mentaly ill in other words she is friggin crazy and it is drivin me nuts ok she takes her medication but that dont help one bit and i think she mite be hiddin them under her tunge like she did last time she was crazy she would hide them in her mouth then throw them away and its rilly ben hard on my whole family and onece she even ran away and she didnt even know it she ran away to like another city or town cuz her head told her to and she came back at 6:00 A.M and my rents took away her car and then they gave it back and now shes fuckin crazy again and she got in a reck and they didnt do jack shit and i fuckin hate it i hate this whole thing and this whole fuckin family

~HELPLESS~ (link)
why dont u sit down and tell them this or if u know what the illness is (like my sis is really depressed) see what the syptoms are then tell ur parents


well my dad and me where never close and when my parents spilt up i went with my mom i want to see my dad agian but i dont know how to act around him should i hate him or should i be nice? He told me he never loved me and i dont understand how you cant love your child.. (link)
he was prolly just mad...just be urself around him




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