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we had a big fight and she wont forgive me i think she hates me WHAT DO I DO?



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My older sister and I havent gotten in some big fights. The good thing is that you apoligized and although shes not ready to forgive you she knows your sorry. The thing with sisters is that you can never stay mad forever. Your family and need to be there for eachother. Just give dont talk to her and let her come around, and when she does dont give her crap like "well its about time" . It'd be a good thing if you didnt even bring it up at all. Hope that helped. And Good Luck :)

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I'm just really scared right now. My dad has
just got finished with hitting me over and
over again and he took a plastic hanger and
just keep whacking me with it on my toes. And
that kills! I kept trying to run away but I
was too in shock to move out of his reach and
my sister doesn't think anything of it because
he does it a lot so she thinks that's what your
supposed to do. After watching my dad hit me,
my sister frequently elbows me or punches me in
the stomach if we play hide and seek and she loses.
My parents buy my sister everything and play games
with her and treat her well but they treat me
like I'm a piece of crap. They call me "a piece
of shit" and "a waste of space." And they threatened
to send me to a shrink and never let me see my
family again. My relatives gossip to everyone if
I tell them my dad hit me and they don't believe
me so I can't tell them. I will NEVER tell my
friends because even though I love them dearly,
I couldn't trust them with that. Also, I hate my
guidance counselor and I just can't tell him. After
my dad hit me I had my hand on the phone and I
was just about to dial 911 but I got scared and
stopped. I did it once before but my parents
denied everything. Once I was on vacation and
my parents were verbally abusing me and this
lady heard and called the police but my parents
denied everything. Sometimes I give my parents
a reason to hit me like if we are in a fight
but I don't know I'm really scared to come out
of my room right now. I need all the advice I
can get and if you believe I should call a number
and tell them what's going on who do I call?
I want a professional. But if they take me away
from the parents, where will I live? I really
don't want to live with strangers in an
orphanage! Would they put me at a friend's
or relatives house? I'm just really scared and
I don't really want to leave my parents. But they
can be abusive and I don't know how much longer
I can put up with it! Help!!!!!


Sorry this is soo long.

I don't know if you need anymore advice , but my heart breaks for you so badly and i just want to help you out. You need to contact the police when the abuse happens. Like right away. Dont be scared to its going to be for the best. I promise you.No person should ever go through physical or verbal abuse! You are not a waste of life. DOnt let them get to you. God created you and made you the way you are. The truth is , they might take you away from your parents, but isnt it better to be away from that? DO you have any really close friends. You could ask a friend if you could stay at there house for a while, because your having family problems. I dont know, but do something. Tell someone right away! But always remember, you are someone specail and dont deserve this!



IF you ever need anything let me knoww because im here!:]

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Hey. Well, I'm 13/f, and during the weeekdays, I live with my mom [my parents are divorced]. Now, don't get me wrong, my mom is NOT an alchaholic, becuase I've NEVER seen her like really drunk, in my entire life. But, she always drinks, like beer is pretty much the only thing she does drink. I've told her It bothers me, and she stops, for like 3 days to a week. Then she complains that she's 'poor'. She also smokes, a LOT, In the house, and it smells GROSS. Is their anything I can do?

Im going through the excact same thing with my mom.My mom complains that shes a single parent and its too hard.It really bothers me when she does drink, like to the point where when i think about it , ill cry. One day i was so fed up with it than i just balled and told her how i felt and that i dont like her like that and she promised to stop. Unfortuntualy that didnt really last long. Just really talk to her about it. Show her it really upsets you, and if she doesnt have a drinking problem she will be able to stop. I know how hard it is.
My mom also smokes, i guess im just so used to the smell. But you can try spraying some air freshner around the house, and febreze on the furniture and before you go out make sure to put perfume on , so you dont smell like smoke. You wouldnt belive how many peple have asked me if i smoke.


good luck and if you ever want to talk about things dont be shy !:]

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i submitted this question once already but it like didn't go through so i fixed it up a bit..

alright well..

one of my friends has very strict parents. so they were looking at her search history and found her myspace. they also found mine.

i'm not aloud to have a myspace. my parents made it very clear that if i had one, i'd be in deep trouble. i wouldnt be allowed on the computer for a long time and when i am allowed to my parents would watch my every move. so on AIM, i cant talk to anyone about private stuff.

i deleted my account already but i dont know what to do. my friends dad said hes going to tell my parents. her dad is going to say he saw it a few days ago so there's no hiding that i actually did have one.

i really don't know what to do. i don't want to get in trouble and loose my computer rights. last resort would be to come clean but i don't want to have to do that. i need to get out of this situation. i really need help, and FAST!! please, does anyone have any advice?

thank you sooooooooooooooo much. you dont know how incredibly bad i need advice.

you probably already got a ton of great advice but here goes:


tell your parents that you had a myspace before they told you not too , and than when they told you nott to , you didnt know how to delete it , so you just never went on. and than just say once your friends dad saw it you logged on and tried figured out how to delete it. idk if they'll believe that but hope so.

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