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Ok well i dont really know where to start... Well as a kid me n my father seemed to get along ok he took me places ocasionally here n there, normal father things, but as i grew up it seemed everything changed he grew yo have such anger towards me. He tells me im worthless, i dont deserve the things he pasy for, and he has hit me and my sister... I do talk back and i do raise my voice at him when he "jokingly" annoys me with his little things like he yells out stuff and he like "play" hits me n the head when im trying to do stuff. But i dont feel that gives him the right to treat me the way he does. He tells me i have no respect... like he has ne respect for me at all. I just dont get it. My mom doesnt even love him... i know it. He does to her what he does to me, except he would nvr hit her. Maybe you could help me out n give me advice on wut to do, Cuz these 14yrs of my life wont b messed with by that asshole whos only my father gentically... Nvr a father in heart. (link)
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well.. maybe you your sister and ur mom could all get together and talk about going to family counseling and find out why ur father grew to have so much anger. its not right that he is hurting you and your family, and if it gets really bad, u need to tell the police cuz no person has the right to do that to u or anyone else. ill keep thinking of ways to help u and feel free to ask me anything anytime
xOx* kandiie
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My mom is an alchoholic(or however you spell it) and she left my father a few years ago. She has been an alchoholic for as long as I cant remember and she has wrecked about 5 of our cars. She used to make me lie for her so my father wouldnt find out she had been drinking. I never told on my mother, because she convinced me that it was my father who was the problem. Whenever he found out about my mothers drinking, she would blame it on me and call me a bitch. I never blamed her, saying that it was the alchohol, and not her talking. She has been to jail twice, and also AA, which did nothing. After she left my father she took half of the money with her and ruined my chances for a good college.She still blamed my father. After that she got both a dog and a cat for me but was "keeping them for me" at her apartment. She lost both of them. She dated about 100 guys who she scraped up from the under belly of satan. (They were all the "one")she finally married one of the grungiest, who smelled of pot( she did drugs to.)then she skipped town after not showing up to court after a drug bust.We havent heard from her or her husband since. All of this almost killed me. She went from loving mother to a pot addict between jobs and under house arrest in a hotel. Its hard going day after day not knowing if your mother ids still alive, so please if anyone out there knows or knew a woman named Judy M. Flint ( maiden name Judith M. Daniel) please let me know? And if anyone has gone through something similar it would be great to talk to you. Thanks (link)
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i havent heard about your mom but i am very sorry. if i hear anything ill be sure to tell u. good luck!!
xOx* kandiie
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Okay well im 13 years old i am going to be turning 14 in aug. and i'm having a birthday party at my house w/ guys and girls and i have no idea what to do at the party does any one have any ideas? i have no swimming pool so can't swim please help thank you so much :) (link)
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im turning 14 in august too!! well.. at parties i go to, put on some music and people love to dance! expecially Juke!! turn the lights real low, or off, blast some music n people will do their own thing..
xOx* kandiie
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