I'm a married mother of one son. I consider myself a late learner, because it wasn't until the last five or ten years I really started wanting to know more about the world around me. I'm called a liberal by those who believe that hating unjust war and not supporting Bush makes you one. I'm not really into politics as much as I'd say I'm into current events.
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Location: Orange
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Age: 38
Member Since: November 25, 2006
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What do i do with a husband who doesn't believe he is cheating on me since he insists the relationship isn't physical? We will be going to marriage counciling soon but have to wait for an appointment. He has written love letters to her that i found. i can't just dump him, i have a 9 month old daughter to think about. He still wants to hang out with the girl and won't stop, even after i said it would hurt me and our relationship if he did. he doesn't think he is wrong. What would you do? (link)
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I finally told my husband when he was doing something similar that it didn't matter anymore if he thought he was cheating. What mattered was what he was doing was hurting me to the point I would have to leave. I reworded it to his "actions" instead of "cheating". He understood that and quit repeating his actions that were hurting me and our marriage. We have a son who was about 7 at the time. If your man cares for the baby as much as you do, he'll meet you halfway.
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