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Location: greenfiled MA
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Age: 15
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Member Since: October 8, 2006
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hey i am 16 and female...i just recently moved but i have been considered depressed for 3 years but really didnt say anything but now after the move i feel worse...i am never really happy and i feel like i just really dont want to be here... how can i have happiness again..and how can i feel alive?
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Hmmm i know exactly what you mean! its hard to put on that happy face every day, if you have no reason to be happy.... but i suggest doing something that you woulndn't normally do. Go out on a limb. Invite yourself to sit with a different group at lunch, or joion the soccer team. DO something shocking to get out of your phunk. keep yourself occupied, it will keep your mind from wandering so much. Also if your ever feeling really down in the dumps, try to find your confort spot. it could be a place or and object or a person, but do what you have to do to calm down and move on. hope this helps


im a twin and i feel as if my dad treats my sister differently than me .. she snuck out of the house and got caught and she didnt even get grounded while me on the other hand didnt tell my dad all the details about my friends sweet sixteen and i was grounded from my boyfriend for a week .. does anyone know what i can do? (link)
I don't have a twin, but i've had some similar situations in my life so i iknoow exactly what your saying. The only thing that i think will really work is if u confront your dad. Tell him exactly how you feel, he can't argue with how you feel. SO make sure u saying when you treat her this way I FEEL....If you don't see improvements, then i'd suggest going to your mom or someone else in your household. make that person understand how you feel, and then ask them if they can talk to your dad, because your message obviously didn't get across to him. I hope this helps! good luck


my mom is having her 29th birthday and ma bff invited me to the ross game and then go to the haunted hydro so wut should i do i think that i should go to ma moms b-day and then go to the hydro so wut should i do ?????????????
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I know right now going with your friend for a weekend seems really important, but in the long run your mom is the one that has always been there for you. Friends will come and go, but your mom will be there for ever. And think about how much your mom does ofor you.... take this time to show her how much u care about her, and that u choose her over your friends.




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