Hey everyone,
my name is Devan, I'm 19 years old and a sophmore at Arizona State University. Go Devils!! I moved here from Kingston Springs, TN (20 min. out of Nashville). If any of my friends have a problem of any sort whether girl/guy problems, school issues, social issues or anything of the sort, I'm always the one that they come to. I think the reason that my friends feel comfortable coming to me is because they know that whatever is discussed between the two of us stays between the two of us. I do that for my friends and all though I don't know any of you I will do the same for you as well. I'm trustworthy and I can guarantee that I've personally been in or have had a friend go through just about any situation you can come up with. Whatever you've got for me feel free to ask cause I'm down right honest and will help you the best way I can!
Gender: Female
Location: I moved from TN and I live in Arizona.
Occupation: student
Age: 19
AIM: blndbarbie18
Member Since: June 27, 2005
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my sister has been going out with this guy mike for longer thn a year and my whole family has loved him like a son/brother ect. but my stupid sister broke up with him for this druggie that our whole family despises. I know mike still loves her. I really don't want this Chris guy over at my house everyday. i was happy with mike. what should i do? i'll rate 5's for anyone who doesn't say it's your sisters life and let her do whatever she wants cuz i kno this guy is so wrong for her or anybody else. please help. (link)
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I dated this guy in high school for about 2 years. My family really started to not like him after a while and my friends didn't like him from the beginning. My mom and my dad would constantly have conversations with me about it saying how they didn't think he was right for me and he's doing this and that wrong. My friends would point out little things as well. I have to say that it was one of the most stressful periods of my life. It was constantly uncomfortable around my family and him because neither one liked the other which put me in a very difficult position. I suggest that you and your family sit your sister down and calmly have a discussion with her about how you all feel. Make sure you inform her that you understand it's her life and she has the right to date who she wants, but she needs to know that you and your family are not fully supportive. It will be a very difficult conversation to have, I promise you that. After she goes through enough time with her family not behind her the stress will be to much to bare and she will let one or the other go. Yes I said one or the other, bringing me to my next point. Although you don't support her in this, you still need to let her know that you all lover her and care about her so she doesn't feel abandoned. It worked on me so I hope it works on her. I hope this takes you where you want to go!
~Devan~
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