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Well, I'm 15/f and my older brother is 23/m. My mom has always sided with him and she is completely rude to me. She always compares me to him, and I'm sick of it. She complains that I don't do anything to help her out around the house when I always clean my room on "cleaning weekends", I vacuum when she asks me, and I do the dishes when she asks. Yet, I still hear all the time how my brother, when he was 15 had a job and all this other stuff. Well, I would truly love to get a job, but nothing around here hires 15 year olds, so I'm kind of stuck. I really am fed up with her always comparing me to him, saying I'm a bad daughter and all I care about is myself and my boyfriend (which is not true at all). Yet, she has no idea what my brother does behind her back, he throws parties at my house when she goes to Atlantic City for the weekend, and she doesn't even care; he makes a mess of the house, and I end up having to clean it because he's too hungover and inconsiderate to see that it was him and his friends that made the mess not me. I really am just so done with listening to her complain about me, and think of how "wonderful" her son is. Plus, she complains that I'm not responsible enough to get my license/permit, but my brother was able to when he was 16. Yet, I do ALL of my homework, and I try so hard in school, but I don't have the best grades, I'm a B/C student, and she doesn't accept that from me; and yet, he slept all through high school, and passed, but he never had to hear it from her. I really don't know what to do, and how to confront her, every time I put any effort to it, I get yelled at.
Sorry this was long; any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you kindly. (link)
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my sister's always getting compared to me... but my parents stopped when she told them how she felt so just try telling them, if they won't listen then ask your brother if he can help you out
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i called my aunt on new years day. she called back later on her patient's house phone and told me she'd call me later when her minutes were free. i saw time going so before i went to sleep i called her but her cell phone rang twice and the voicemail came on. i called back later in the night and this time it just rang until the voicemail came on. the next two days the same thing kept happening. it was strange to me that she wouldn't return none of my calls because that's not like her. after the third day i gave up. a few weeks later i answered my house phone and it was my aunt. i purposely kept quiet because i was waiting for her to mention me calling her but instead she said hi like normal then asked me what was wrong with my phone(i didn't have any minutes)then she said she'd call me later. that was the last time i talked to her and i've purposely put my cell to accept calls from certain people excluding her. i just thought if she wasn't ignoring me then she could have gave a little explanation for not paying me any mind and then call out of nowhere as if noting happened who thinks i should ignore her because that's what i'm going for (link)
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I've had this happen before, my aunt's a nurse, and one time i alled her, she said she was busy and would call me back. she didn't call me back and i didn't see or talk to her for about a month. when i did see her see said that she had gotten caught up with work and she totally spaced it out.
this is probably what happend with your aunt, so don't read too much into it. but if it really bugs you you shold ask her about it.
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