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Ok i really want to go to the movies today with my friend today becasuse its a snowday for me and my mom was like no you cant i dont want someone else driving you that far! And then i got really mad cuz shes just an overprotective evil and i told her i hated her(i really do) and now its so annoying cuz she doesnt understand 1 thing.!

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you dont hate your mom... its just for the moment.. i no what you mean even though my mom isnt overprotective my dad is.. i dont live with him cuz my parents are devorsed but he is only like that because i am his one and only daughter and he loves me and doesnt want anything to happen to me.. xOx jiLl


Me and my family have been spliting apart this past couple months, my mom left my dad and found someone else. Im not sure how to accept this because it seems like she left my dad to be with him.but here lately my dads been tryin to but all the pressure of his on me and trying to make me feel bad about it and it works i dont know what to do about it though. (link)
okay.. talk to your dad and tell him not to make you feel bad because you didnt do anything.. and ask your mom maybe if she only left your dad for that guy.. and talk to her about your dad.. my life was kind of like that except my mom didnt find someone right away.. but if u need to.. i.m me and we can talk jilliix3


i really hate my dad.

no, really.

i sincerely dislike the man.

i am incredibly opinionated and very vocal about my opinions, which he hates.

i know i am smarter than him, he hates this also.

he yells at me for no reason often. condemning my use of the computer. stating that i'm on it too much.

my sister, on the other hand, watches TV all the time. he says i lack social skills because i'm on the computer "too much."

he's not around when i'm not on the computer and doing other things.

but yet i am still on the computer too much according to him.

i fight back all the time, but i hate it. i hate him.

i cant stand this anymore.

i want out.

due to his working situation i dont see him except for some weekends. (my parents arent divorced).

when he tries to punish me, he fails. he really cant. i have more power than he does in our family.

i'm 14, extremely mature and intelligent, if i do say so myself.

i dont want to kill him (in my head i do, on paper it doesnt look so good) but i'd like some way to come to peace with him.

i am NOT going to shut up and stop being opinionated however.
any advice on what i should do?
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well what i would do is not yell ((i probably would but id try not to)) and maybe just say the computer makes me feel better and i do other things then just use the comp.. but your not here to see them!! umm im not saying this in a mean way but does he drink or something i dont know because my dad used to and he was like that!! hed flipp for no reason it seems like we have alot in common with our lives. i know this isnt about me but maybe my problems can help you with yours.. umm if u want i.m me at jilliix3


I'm gonna get straight to the point.My dad hates me he said it himself he told me last yr. in New Years Day that he was gonna make it hell for me and he kept his promise now he's doing the same thing this year.Im 14/f and I'm really tired of it.And my sister doesn't make it any better because she looks through my things constantly I can't hide anything cause she finds it and uses it against me.She is 2 years younger and makes life living hell for me.My older brother is going to the Army soon and he barly is never there and me and him don't get along.Then there is my mom she doesnt understand all she can say is calm down be patient and soon this will end.PLZ HELP what can I do.Thank you on advance. (link)
well if your not shy or anything go talk to your school counciler!! i think that would deffenetly help alot.. or talk to someone you trust thats an adult so they have the power to do something!!!!!!!!!!! no dad can hate their son!! does he have a drinking problem because my mom and grandfather were both like that but now that my dad doesnt drink hes better and a better person but my grandfather still says he hates people that he loves the most and beats my grandmother soo yeah umm i.m me if you want to talk jilliix3

xOx jiLl


My parents might get a divorce. And i feel like i should do somthing to try and save their marriage. Is there anyone who has gone through the same problems that i am and can help? (link)
well i deffenetly can help!! my parents got a divorce to... you can try and remind them about all there good times together and stuff but theres really not much you can do but if you want to talk instant message me at jilliix3

xOx jiLl


Well to start off.. My mother left a week before Christmas and I miss her so much.. My dad is go crazy because she left all of us.. She don't call or even write to us. I need so help to know how to help my dad through all of this pain.. Thank you if you write back... I really do need as much help as I can get.... **** Thanks Heather****
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well you should help out around the house as much as possible.. and talk to your dad and maybe you should try and find your mom.. or ask your dad about family conciling.. it works.. i.m me if you need anything jilliix3 xOx jiLl




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