My name is Ashley I am 22 years old. I love giving advice to anyone about anything so ask away. I live in california I am a receptionist.
E-mail: askashleye@yahoo.com Gender: Female Location: California Age: 22 Member Since: January 23, 2006 Answers: 23 Last Update: April 15, 2014 Visitors: 3378
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14F... My grandfather died today. It was verry sad because we where close, its hard for me because my dad died just a few years ago...* and my grandfather was all "dad" i had left. I don't know what to do. I keep freaking out! PlzZ help me (link)
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Dear writer,
First I would like to start by saying I am sorry for your loss. I do know what your going through I lost my grandma about a year ago and she was very close to me because my mom wasnt around a whole lot. I cant say that it will get easier because it won't it still hurts everyday but what has gotten me through is knowing that she is still watching over me just like your grandfather and dad are they are so proud of you. I also find that listening to songs though they make me cry help soothe me a little. I also like to go on her facebook and write how im feeling if you cant go to a facebook maybe just writing a letter to them can really help get your feelings out . I also made her a dedication video on youtube. I know its hard and it will be for a while but it gets easier I promise and they are always there in your heart. =) I hoped I helped ~mesachick51~
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The thing is my dad suspects me to be perfect and the thing is I'm not. And i can never be. I can never be the girl he wants me to be and i dont know what to do anymore, i'd tell him all that but he would just kick me out and i would have no where to go , can you help me please? (link)
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Hello,
My advice to you is to sit your dad down and be very nice about the situation. Tell him you love that he wants you to be perfect, but it is just not possible. Tell him that you can try to be perfect, but can't promise that you won't mess up ocassinally. He needs to know that everyone messes up at least once in there life. Hopefully he will listen and understand. I hope my advice works let me know ~MESACHICK51~
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