Hey Everyone! My name is Taryn but people call me T-bear! I have a a pretty rough roller coaster in my life but have made it to the top and love where I am at today. I have a beautiful family and am able to smile again everyday. I love helping other people keep the faith and know what you are going through and where you can end up. I love my fiance who I am about to marry here in 20 days and adore my one year old son. He reminds me why I continue to appreciate my breath here on earth. I am here for anyone at anytime. Just ask away!!! Luv u all!!
E-mail: tarebear_whinery17@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Wyoming
Occupation: Full Time Mommy
Age: 25
MSN: tarebear_whinery17@hotmail.com
Member Since: November 13, 2006
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My father and my husband HATE EACH OTHER. They aren't nasty to one another, they just complain to me. It is a huge emotional burden to carry. Any advice for peace is appreciated. (link)
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Tell them exactly what you said sit them down together and say this is a huge emotional burden to carry, use the guilt trip and say you know if you both cared about me you wouldnt put me through this. and its the truth. Tell your dad that you love you husband and he should be happy for you and support that and tell you husband that this is your father and you love him and if he loves you then he should love everything that comes with you. Make them talk out there problems and if they cant act like adults tell them ok until you two can grow up and talk about things than you wont be talking to me and get up and walk away that will scare them both and you dont deserve that good luck
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13/f
This'll take a while, so you might wanna grab a cup of tea or something.
I moved to a new house about two years ago, and I had a lot of babysitting experience where I used to live. When I came to my new home, I joined a church and met TONS (60, tons) of little kids there. One of my new friends here is really experienced in babysitting also, so we decided to create a babysitting club. There are two things that I need advice on.
First, I am kind of nervous because all of the kids that I have babysat for in the past, I had known well before. Two jobs in specific, I'll give as examples, I babysat for two boys, a 1-year old and a four-year old, until they were 2 and 6. The older one loved me and the younger one was so good you never had to worry about much. The other example was I babysat for two girls in my old neighborhood, one five the other 7, until they were 6 and 8. They both idolized me and would do whatever I wanted, so I never had many problems with that. (I'm not trying to brag or sound snotty, I'm just saying that those kids knew me, so it was easier) I am going to put up fliers in the church and in my dance studio, but I know only some of the kids in both places. I know two boys, 6 and 8, at the church, pretty well, and they like me a lot, but my older brother babysits for them. (Damn it! L0L) So basically, the kids that I'll be babysitting I won't know like I'm used too. (Or I won't know them A LOT!) So my first question is, how should I deal with the new situation?
Second, are there any ideas for a system for a babysitting club that my friend and I could do? Right now I'm Secretary and she's Treasurer, but we don't have much past that.
And also, what are other places that I could put up fliers other than my church and dance studio?
I know it's long, and I'm sorry. (link)
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First of all, you dont have to apologize for a long ? thats what this site is for hun! Life is all about taking chance and challeges. If life was easy and you could always get and do what your comfortable with, then life would just be plain boring!!! You are 13 and there are going to be much scarier expierences out there that you babysitting dilemma so start preparing yourself for this now. When my friend and I started up a babysitting club when we were younger. We put up signs at the local grocery store, shopping stores, an popular places that may have a place you can hang something at. We just put our names, our expierences and what we were looking for when someone called, they would specify who they wanted or we would take turns.... We both just kept the money we made and saved it up. If that something you wouldnt like to do you could always do something like BABYSITTING CLUB give them a number and anytime someone called you would take turns on who goes save all the money and every week or two split it evenly... anyways I hoped I helped and REMEMBER never be afraid to take chances it will prepare you for life and only make you stronger!! good luck let me know how things go
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16/f
well to start off, its takin me a while to build up trust with my mom again. shes caught me with drugs and drinkin in the past, and now im finally on her good side. the only thing recently is that she found out me and my boyfriend are havin sex.
now heres the problem, i have to tell her im pregnant. my mom means the world to me and im scared to break her heart, plus she could fuck over my boyfriend because we arent legal. shes the kind of person that you need to let her think before you talk to her about somethin, so i was thinkin i would slip a note in her purse tonight for her to read tomorrow and then ill talk to her after work. orrr, id wait for school to start and send her a text.
what do you guys think would be a good way for someone like my mom, whos very fragile and needs to think about things for a while before you discuss them with her ?
thanks ! (link)
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absolutely not..... that is the most childish thing you can do/// you got pregnant you take responsiblity... if you are to tell your mom over text or letter... she will not see your reactions and you will not see hers... it will be more likely for her to take legal action if you are not there to calm her..... its gonna be scary but something you have to do
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