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Q: I visited my grandparents a few weeks ago and totaly loved it there, I saw all my old friends (I used to live there when I was 9), and the youth groupe rocked! I told my mom how much I loved it there and she asked if I wanted to move there. I told her yes but I ment my entire family. My mom really misses it back in her home town and wants to move there and has made arangements to move back there but without my dad. They aren't getting a divorce but they still aren't going to live together for like 3 years. Mom says that there marriage will last, but I can't help but think that she is sacrificing here marriage for me... should I tell her that i don't want to move (I really do) because she says that we won't if I don't want to.
You need to make a decision of what is more important to you. Being with your friends or having a family that's together. There are kids all over the world that just wish that they could have both parents at home.
You never know how much youll miss something until it's gone.

Q: okay this problem has been hearsince i was born. my mom divorced my dad and left my 4 siblings with him. i wasw about 6 months old when we left for nc to live with my grandma because she couldn't afford living on her own. while we lived there she neverm ade any friends or had anything to do with our family there besides my grandma. Since she had nobody all she had was me and she was stuck up my butt and would get mad if i wanted to go to a friends house or anything without her.so i didn't go places very often. she is also an alcoholic.She get really violent and she has also done a whole bunch of drugs. she would diappear for a wee or 2 at a time. she got caught and when she recovered she was stuck up my butt even worse. i had to start just leaving because other wise i would not have been able to do anything at all. well my mom's job trasfered her to a new town and her i am. we are close to my dad and them but she still is so far up my but and she is always right there when i wanna go somewhere. put it this way. i only have been to my friends house once and i had to fight to go. the only other place i have been is my sisters. she has started to drink again and she is getting to be unberable i can't do anything without her right there i'm 15 and i can't even go to my friends house. i don't want to live with her anymore but i can't live with my dad. he can't afford it. my sister is a sinlge mom with 2 kids so she can't afford me either. i don't know what to do i am terriable unhappy and i want to go back to nc. there are people there who could take me in but i can't leave because i need permission for my mom.and someone would have to buy me a ticket home. what do i do? i can't hardly take her anymore. i feel like i am in a prison. i have told her a million time but it never helps. What should i do?
You have to just stay focused on your grade do good in school so you can go to college, and spend more time warning your mother of how she is ruining her life and yours.

Q: ok so i will be turining 16 in like 10 months now but thats besides the fact i know what i want and i want to get it "done" and ten months well i better tell them something worth convicing by that time thats a lot of time. so i have nothing so far and i was just thinking of convicing my parents and its all three. step mom dad and mom. i already told them i want it. my step mom is like ehh idk your father wont like it my moms like NO my dad well never really said anything but thats what i want its cheap and on our 16 birthdays its like a royal day rite and we get something expensive and thats what i want a belly button piercing thats all my step sister has one and its fucking awsome!!! ilove it i want one and it will happend ....with a goood conviceing story and thats where the people whoare reading this come in helppppp plllzzz.
Parents only look out for your best interest even though we feel that they are always against us, but just wait soon enough you'll be out the house.

Q: so like everyone says that when you have a dream more than once, its eventually going to come true.

is that true? cause i have had the same dream for like a week. just...different people. and different sequences. but the same thing happens.
Dreams that occur repetitiously, they usually mean something. Just look forward to something of that nature happening.......... I hope it wasn't bad

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