I AM A VERY NON-JUDGEMENTAL PERSON. I AM VERY INCITEFUL AND HAVE MANY LIFE EXPERIENCES. I CAN ALMOST RELATE TO ANYTHING, TRUST ME! I ASPIRE TO BE A SINGER AND HAVE MY OWN ALBUM SOMEDAY BUT NOT SURE HOW TO QUITE GET TO THAT POINT. LET'S TALK, IM HERE FOR YOU.
E-mail: labella1400@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: suburbs of Chicago
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I have my nose pierced and my mom hates facial piercings so she told me that if i take it out she will let me get my belly button pierced well i want to keep my nose ring and get my belly button pierced and jus not wear a nose ring when im around her but it will close up got any idea how i can keep my nose pierced but get my belly button pierced?? i already have a clear retainer for work but she notices that so what should i do? (link)
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the best advice i have is to poke it through or wear it only when you aren't around her. it wont close unless you always leave it out. so tell her it's out and get your belly button pierced. then you have both. wear it only when shes not around to see it
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My dad doesn’t like me…and I know you’ll probably be like he’s your dad he loves you deep down I’m pretty sure he does…but no he doesn’t…..He never says he loves me or will miss me…he’s never given me a hug or anything.. …Like If he ever comes up to me and says I love…I would be weirded out by a lot..and be like umm..okay get a away from me you freak….It’s really awkward being near him…..Like he’s always yelling at me for the most stupid things…and it’s annoying….He’s really annoying….Like for example…every night I take a shower at around 9 and my dad’s like go take a shower and it’s like 8:30…so I’m like no later…it’s to early…he’s like what are you going to do. Wait till 10o clock like everyday…and I’m like WTF!! When do I ever wait till 10 o clock!! And it’s not like he says it every once in a while it’s every effing dayyy!! It’s soo annoying I’m tired of it…and not only that but the littlest things I do….like I cause an accident like accidentally spill my water on the table he’ll be god you need to pay attention..you never pay attetion..and I’m like WTF omg..it was an accident…and my grades aren’t that great rite..but I’m trying my hardest…but my dad’s like good you think everything hard..your not studying all you care about is straightening hair(which I don’t even do everyday), and myspace(which I haven’t gotten on ever since like 7th grade)…and stuff…good I just don’t know what to do..he’s always criticizing me…and it’s not like the good kind where you learn and it helps you..it’s like putting you down criticism…and I don’t want to talk to my mom about it because she’ll just get mad at me for even thinking that. And then she’ll probably go tell my dad..and he’ll deny everything…..Like he used to watch porn(gross I know) and sometimes he’ll forget it’s on history or it’s left on windows media player..and I used to tell my mom..and he would deny it..i’m just like SERIOUSLY!!….are you really going to believe..like it was left on..and he was the only one on the computer....and so ever since then it’s been even more awkward….because I wonder if he ever thinks of me like that….and one thing I especially hate is everyday I close the computer doors so I can do my hmrk….because I hate when it’s open b/c I feel like people are watching me….and every effing day my stupid dad has to come by and hit it open stare at what I’m doing then go to his room….and when I close it he’ll be like why are you closing it…are you on aim, facebook, myspace….and stuff…I tell him it’s because I like it closed…then he starts to yell at me and tells me to leave him open…GOD I don’t know what to do…I don’t want to sit and talk with him…because that’ll be awkward and knowing my dad it’s not like anything will change. He also yells at me for things I didn’t even do…like it’s my sisters fault and tell him it is…he’s like I DON’T CARE..YOU DO IT…and he’ll only believe me if I call my sister and she says it was her…then he’ll go on mumbling about it..and I’m just like OMG shut uppp…pleasee…GODD
All my friends are like I love my dad…and their dad actually cares about themOne time I got so pissed off I ran away…it wasn’t like really running away…i went to the park in my neighborhood…and sat down…my mom was freaking out…and she was a work so she could’nt get in her car and come look for me. My dad was like w/e…and stuff…so an hour passed…two hours…eventually it was 7 and I left at 4…and I was like w/e I’ll walk home cause I was bored…so I start to walk home and I get to the front door..and my dad is JUST getting out of the drive way to look for me…I’m just like wow…you are such an amazing parent..you really care for your kids…and he did’nt come because he was worried…it was because my mom told him to go find me…Yea so that’ my miserable life…I don’t know what to do…I don’t know if it’s me not doing something right or if it’s my dad’s fault..but I just need to know what to do…I can’t take it anymore…
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Wow that was long. I can tell you must have been venting a little bit huh? Well sweetie I can tell you I know what it's like. I won't go into detail about my effed up life but it's his loss! You probably have heard this a million times in your life but you can't change anyone but yourself! He's going to be that way and you can try approaching it like this...
"Dad I know we don't get along but I want you to see things from my perspective! I want a dad to hug me and care for me. I want to grow up knowing that you were there supporting me. Maybe not only financially but emotionally and out of love. I am your daughter and you are my dad and it would mean so much if we could sit down and talk about things that have been on my mind." Handle it like that somehow. If he doesn't cooperate then he's missing out and atleast you know that you made an effort to have a relationship with him.
feel free to ask anymore questions
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ok so last night me and my friends went to a party down the street and my friend and i were supposed to sleepover my other friends house. but then at the last min of the night her mom siad she couldn't have anyonee sleepoverr and my friend and i were in deep shit ! my parents are divorcedd and my dad is in arizona with his wife and my mom was at her house but she didn't want my friend or i at her housee so i told her i would try to find a house to sleepover. then it ended up that no one could have a sleepover so we ended up getting a ride home to my dads house with no one home and sleeping there for the night just us to and i told my mom i slept at my friend that i was originally supposed to sleep at's house. so now my mom thinks something is up and wants to call her mom! pleasee help me !!!!!! i would appreciate not one of those goody-goody plans and sort of a white lie type thing. i didn't want this to happen like this. my friend got a little drunk from the party and we needed a place to go rather then the street. any clever idea's on how to get through this with my mom thinking i did sleepover my friends.
Here are some things you could work with:
-my friend and her mom that i said i was spending the night with are actully leaving for florida today
-my friend does have a cell phone
any smart ideas ?!?!?!? (link)
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Well you could just come out and say that you were nervous about your friend drinking and you panicked. Tell her that you knew she would be disappointed in you and you acted on impulse. It isn't a lie but it isn't the truth. Usually I would have an older friend with a mature voice answer the phone.(could give your mom that friends phone #) But sometimes things like this are better not kept a secret. After all you said your mother didn't want you home.
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