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Location: Michigan
Age: 24
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Okay, right about now,my life isn't so great. I don't have any close friends, absolutly hate the close minded town i live in, and can't stand my family! I want to get away from it all,and the only way I can do this is by moving in with my dad who lives in another state. See,theres some problems with this though. My brother (who i hate, no,not the kind of hate thats like "he's still your brother"-he's deffinatly no brother to me.) moved with my dad about 3 years ago. He hated it there and fought with my dad all the time so he moved back here. Now,my brothers a very controlling person and always believes he's right(he also breaks everything.) But its so much more as well. Thats how my dad used to be,but he changed. I honestly believe my dad's a much better person now-he's just much more happier. We're also interesting in the same things;music,acting. Anyways, i told my mom i was depressed here and wanted to move away with my dad and she completely flipped out. My moms very mean,not caring.She doesn't care about my feelings what so ever. She thinks my dad's giving me ideas to live with him. I really want to move in with my dad,but she refuses. It's really bad though,because my dad made a credit card under my mom's name and she might have to pay 800 dollers. I'm mad at him for that, but i'd rather be with him than live with my brother and mom for another day.I just want to move so bad, but i feel like theres so many things on both sides telling me to go and not to go. I'm 16,so i have a choice,right? The only friend i told about this didn't understand, so this is really the only place i can go to. Should i stay,or should i go? sorry this is really choppy by the way, i'm just really sad. thanks for the advice though everyone (link)
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Sometimes people will act a certain way when their living situation is not healthy. This could be the reason for your dads past actions. Just because your brother didn't like it with your dad dosen't mean you won't. I don't know how your mom took to your brother going to live with him but she did let him come back. So if you do decied to go try to explain to your mom that you feel like this is something you have to do. If she flips out try not to get into an argument with her because that will make it worse. If it would help try to get your dad involved. He could help in trying to sway your mom. Don't just leave without saying anthing you want to keep the camunication open incase you ever have to go back there. The better you handle this the better the return will be. Hopefully if you do leave then everything will go well for you.
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