Hey, i'm just a normal teenage girl who's going through some rough patches in life. So if you have any problems with boys, friends, family, relationships or mostly anything ask away. I'm always here to help you and give the best advice i can :)
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I'm not entirely sure where to begin. I'm a guy and I'm bisexual. There's a good start. I knew I was, well probably forever. Just the whole facing-reality part was taking a while. I'm now sure of how I feel and who I am. My question is how do I tell my family? My Mother is semi-understanding. She works at a college with many gay people. She accepts them, but still makes remarks and doesn't like to see them touching, kissing, etc. My oldest brother is very against gays. He thinks Lesbians are "okay". He's basically a tool. :) He would probably take the longest to be okay. My middle brother, I believe, would be pretty accepting. He's usually an a-hole, but he seems the most likely to be okay. It doesn't make sense I know, but it does if you were me. As soon as I tell them, I think I would come out to my friends, and then my highschool and then my extended family. I have told a few friends and they were completely accepting and it's a great start. But my family, well idk. Could anyone give advice or maybe tell me how their coming out went? Please and thank you! (link)
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Hmm well if this helps i have a bisexual bestfriend. And he told me just recently that he was bisexual. I didn't care, and of course i accepted him. My uncle is gay also so it doesn't really bother me. I think you should tell your family first, because family always comes first. Your family should accept you for who you are, and not care what orientation you are. As lady gaga would say, "you were born that way baby ;)" Anyways eventually your gonna have to come out sooner or later. And it's gonna be hard to tell people at your school. Especially if your school is like my school, which is so judgemental. And your brothers love you no matter what, so does your mom so they shouldn't have a problem with who you are. Just come out, you'll feel much better. honestly. just take that risk. so what if everyone judges you? eff them. you are your own person and shouldn't care what everyone thinks! well i hope this helps! :) and good luck!
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