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okay to get straight to it i have a dad who has gotten our family to sit together and tell us that he wants to leave our family. He is always fighting with my mom and tell her what to do he bosses her around and she does what ever he says.. and he has just walked out on us before for no reason but then calls us and tell us he is coming home and even tho he tries to be nice sometimes and i dont no how to for give him for doing this to our family... PLEASE HELP ME
hey hun well all i can really tell you is to just do the best you can to make your family happy. Like after your dad leaves spend more time with the rest of your family... i dont no what its like to really have people walk out of my life like that but my mom kinda did that.. altho i still hate her to this day.. but yeah... You cant let your mom just let your dad back in so easily... or he is just gonna keep doing the same thing...
My mom was an alcoholic, everyday she would drink. DUring christmas even more, just because she hated using all of her money and was afraid we'd be moneyless after christmas. On 12/23 I came home from school, all happy because it was the last day and now I have a 2 week vacation, and I came home to my mom being drunker then hell! I was sick of it and I went upstairs because I didn't want to talk to her. About 2 hours later my dad got home and yelled me from upstairs ( I was sleeping ) .. he said that we had to go to the hospital because my mother had passed out.. she had overdosed on anti-depression pills and was drinking ALOT of alcohol at the same time. when we got to the hospital we waited about 30 minutes and they came out and told me my mom was dead. I can't stop thinking that this is all my fault, like if I would've stayed downstairs maybe I would've stopped her from OD. I've been to a psychiatrist about this, but nothing seems to be working. What should I do?? Thanks for any help in advance! (sorry its so long)
Hun i am soo sorry about your mom... but dont blame your self for this at all... I dont no what it is like to have my mother die (thank god) but you couldnt help it. Your mother had some problems and she was taking the anti-depressants but hun you couldnt stop this. If you did stay downstairs yes maybe she wouldnt have died that day but i'm sure she would have just od some other time... dont blame you self for it at all. Its ok to miss her. and i kno you do i would too. but i am sure she wouldnt want you to blame your self for this.
I hope everything gets better for you.
If you ever need to talk to anyone you can im me at xojaymilynnexo...or email me at lildevilchic35@yahoo.com
Much love...xox...
Jaymi Lynne