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I'm a fifteen year old girl and lately I've felt like I'm not good enough for my parents. They always concentrate on my weaknesses and not my strengths. Even the smallest things get me in trouble but when I try to talk to my parents about how I'm feeling, they shut me out. Even on good days I'll get ignored when I talk or they'll roll their eyes at me and say I'm just trying to be dramatic and get attention. When I get mad I start yelling and then I get in more trouble and my parents REALLY won't listen to me. They're hypocritical and judgmental and I don't know what to do. I feel like I can't really talk to them even though I'd love to be able to tell them how I feel and be able to talk out our problems. They just shut me out when I try to work with them so we can fix our relationships. What should I do? (link)
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"not good enough for my parents. They always concentrate on my weaknesses and not my strengths. Even the smallest things get me in trouble but when I try to talk to my parents about how I'm feeling, they shut me out." Every teenager feels this way an personally i know where your coming from. go to your parents an ask them if you can have a heart to heart talk ask them to let you speak an tell them you want suggestions on how to change what you may be doing wrong., tell them you love them an don't ever want a bad relationship with them an apologize for the way you treat them things will open up shortly.
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So I was chatting online with my friend about drinking and stuff cause I was getting red spots after getting drunk. We were talking about vodka and stuff then I went to the bathroom. When I came back, my mom was in front of the laptop. When I was trying to say "wait", she just had a straight face. I think she read our chat. So now I'm really scared. I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? HELP ME PLEASE.:(
xoxo,
J
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yes tell your mother if its one thing you dont want to do is lose your relationship with your family talk it over it may be hard but it will all pay off in the end.
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