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See my Grannie died and thats my mom's mom. My mom has been taking it pretty hard latley and she sometimes crys and gets mad and I just feel so bad for her cause its her mom and she loved her alot. Everytime I see her cry I want to confort her but I don't really know what to do or say. She has lost 7lbs in the last 2 weeks and she hasn't been eating right and she is all depressed and empty. She is really scering me and I don't know what to do.

Please Help Me. Thanks in Advance and No stupid answers.

Ask her to go for a drive. When I go driving with my mom we just sit and talk. Let her talk about whatever she wants with you - even if its not her mom. Maybe you can offer to cook dinner for her - her favorite meal. Write her little notes in places she'll find them when you're not around telling her how much you love her. Make her funny little pictures. If she doesnt want to talk about it, don't push it. Just be there for her incase she does.

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