My name is Alana. I'm here to help so if you need it, just ask !! (: Hope I can help you with your problems. Any question is allowed.
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Location: Pelion SC
Age: 18
Member Since: March 29, 2011
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I babysat for my parents from nine p.m. until 3 a.m. My baby brother is nine months old. He woke up at midnight and did not go back to sleep even when my parents came home. My sister and I do not do good with my brother all by ourselves. My parents were all the way across town. The baby cried for two hours straight and did not want his pacifier or bottle. We did not hear anything from my parents until 3. They wouldn't answer their phones and came home TWO HOURS after I told them my brother was screaming crying nonstop.
They came home and did not have any sympathy at all. They told me I'm the babysitter and I needed to handle it, yet they know I'm not good with him. They treated me like the enemy, arguing with me what time it was and praising my sister, and refusing to acknowledge all the work I did taking care of him.
I am so sick of my parents. Every time I do something nice for them they never appreciate me, and I can never do anything right. They expect so much out of me and I hate their shit. They don't ever acknowledge anything about me. They always neglect me and hurt me physically and mentally.
I am tired of this. I feel ugly and useless everyday of my life. I feel like I am worthless because all they ever do is bring me down. I try talking to them but they won't listen. (link)
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i used to have the SAME problem with my mom, i would do so many things for her without her asking me to and she would never notice. if i made the tiniest mistake (i mean, if i even left a glass on the counter), she would flip out and yell at me. we had a very crappy realationship, but one day i just decided to sit her down. i told her to please not say ANYTHING until i finished getting out what i needed to get out. she listened as i told her how i felt. and at the end we talked about it. we talk everyday now. sure i get mad at he (offten), i just go sit with her and talk about why were having these problems. so just tell your parents how you really feel and dont hold back, let it out and see how they respond. you all should talk about your feelings together - i bet it will help (:
let me know how it goes !
~Alana*
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