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Q: today is my little brothers birthday so we were in the car going 2 the skating rink and i put in my cd so she clicked the radio button

Mother:i dont want 2 hear that

Me: you dont even kno what it is (its a mixed cd)

Mother:lets just listen 2 the radio im tired of listening 2 yall cd's (the song on the radio was the first song on my cd)

she got on the phone so the radio went on a commercial i changed it to see what was on the other station and changed it back she hung up the phone

mother:i got this i know what im doing dont touch my radio

me:it went on commercial

mother:i dont care stop touching
always touching something i should just buy yall a cd player so yall could listen to them on there because im tired of yall listening to this in my car

me:you always buy us the cheap kind tha breaks easy and how were you going to be on the phone and listen to the radio at the same time if you just get my usb cable for my phone i could listen to it on my mp3 player

mother: i dont Have to buy you any thing this is my car i listen the radio and i can talk on the phone anytime i want

me:i didnt say you had to by it for me i said if you buy it for me

mother:you said if you would have brought it for me you could listen to it

me: i didnt even say that why are you being so mean and picky

mother: why are you being a jackass

me: what did i do

mother:i could just bring you home because every time im with you i have bad day i should just bring you home

me:i didnt even do anything i dont care if you bring me home

mother:alrite im bringing you home

me:im about 2 call momo(i got the phone and started calling my grandma)

mother:no you are not (she jecked the phone from me)

we got to the house i ran inside and got the house phone she took it from me you aint calling momo i took it back i said i aint calling her so she started hitting me with the house key in her hand so now i got 3 scratches on my arm and the are bleeding(i was trying too call my auntie noonie to come and pick me up)

who was wrong??????






dEAR U,

In my opinion both or you were wrong you for not listening to your mom, and your mom is wrong for hitting you with key in my opinion thats child abuse because she made you bleed. GO SAY SORRY TO YOUR MOM!


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Q: 13/F
ok.so i love my mom to death and i want to get her something special for v-day. i only have $10.Any ideas that are great but around that price range. and please dont tell me to go get a job because i cant get one that quick.
dear u,


I think you sholud get your mom roses and a card, you can make her a card remember love comes from the heart. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!!

Q: Okay, so I havent been on vacation in awhile and last night at a family christmas party, my Uncle told everyone he's inviting all of us to go to MEXICO for his 50th birthday :] I got really excited, but we'd be going March 12-18 which is during school. My spring break isnt until the end of April so my Mom said no. But I really, reallly want to go! How do I convince her we should go? She seems set in her decision.
you can ask your teachers for work that you can do over your vacation but think about it maybe she does not want you to go because maybe your grades aren't where they are suppose to be.

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Q: My mom is punishing me because i got an In danger of failing in math. She told me No Comp. for 2 weeks, I dont really want that so I go on anyway. She caught me on and started cursing about how she doesnt trust me and how I "ripped her heart out" and how I'm disrespecting her, I had plans with my best firend tomorrow which she's making me cancel and she's just mad. I don undestand why she has to be on my back about it, she should just let me be. She talks about how she doesnt want the punishment to get bad, but she's making it bad, no one is forcing her to make things this bad, she's doing it on her own.
What can I do?!

-Jordan
13, Female.
In my opinion that punishment is not that bad you can handle not being on the computer for 2weeks you are making it worst on yourself by getting on the computer any way so understand that your mom is just doing that cause she cares about you and that you get a good education. need more advice e-mail me at duckieh20lol@hotmail.com

Q: WARNING: THIS IS GOING TO BE LONG BUT I SERIOUSLY NEED ADVICE ON THIS. PLEASE DONT LEAVE BECAUSE ITS TOO LONG. YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO MAKE IT ALL BETTER FOR ME. PLEASE READ.

ok. so me and my mom fight non-stop. screaming yelling crying. the usual. its weird because we used to be really close and would always go shopping and crap and i would tell her everything yatta yatta. well i really want to be her "friend" er w/e. i mean not like besties but id like to at least have a positive relationship. seriously. usually, like as of right now, i hate her guts. with a strong passion. she ruins my life.

does anyone know anything i can say to her that lets her know i need her? this sound really cheesey i know. but its like ruining my life not to have a positive relationship. i mean. i get grounded for the f-ing retaredest things (if thats even a word..) and because of her i wont be able to spend this coming weekend with my boyfirend. (its our anniversary) and im superrr pissed.

anything.. please. this is serious. i hate my life. and its all because of her. i honestly wish my parents would divorce just so i wouldnt see her as much. but the only thing is she says that if my parents were to divorce (for the like 3rd time) she wouldnt let me live with my dad. yeah right. i would refuse to live with my mom.

ughhhh. please help..


oh and by the way;
if it makes a difference, she has cronic depression and doesnt always take her medications (which pisses me off). so shes always bitchy. my dad agrees with me that sometimes she goes over the top.

I KNOW THIS WAS LONG BUT PLEASE HELP!

xoxo
14/f
make sure to pick a time thats right like when your not fighting tell her your sorry that you love her and that you really need her it might improve the relationship with your mom.

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