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*PLEASE* dO nOt WrItE lIkE tHiS wHeN yOu ArE aSkInG fOr AdViCe. I wIlL nOt AnSwEr!! PlEaSe GrOw Up!!!
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Last night I had to spend the night with my sister. She is married and already has children. So while she was taking a bath I was looking on her phone and found Text messages that where from her husband (he has a driving job) and one said, "Talk Dirty To Me." and another one said, "Wouldn't you like to be licked all over?". I was so shocked. I mean I would have never thought of him acting like that. So I put the phone down and I just couldn't read anymore. I still feel shocked and horriable. I know she is married and has a right to do what she wants,and I shouldn't have been looking on her phone and nowI just don't know what to do. Any Ideas?? (She is 29, he is 30) (link)
did you ever think of it as a joke maybe?


my moms bf irritates the HELL out of me, like you have no idea. one time after i was getting over a fever we were going out my mom was like "do you want to take your coat" and im like "no im fine" and hes like "even IM taking my coat" and im like "okay..." and he's like "fine, stay sick if you want, i dont care" and i seriously wanted to backhand him. like, he doesnt even DO anything for me when im sick so why should i give a shit weather he "cares" if im sick or not. i dont think he was intentionally trying to be so bitchy but he seriously does that all the time and, to me, i dont see him as someone that has any authority over me since they've only been dating for 5 months or so. he lays it on too thick with my mom always saying "omg your such a good cook blah blah balh" allllll the time and i feel like i never get to hang out with her. i mean, obviously i have friends i hang out with a stuff, but it feels like i never get to see her anymore unless hes not there.
oh and he moved in with us.
joy joy.

sorry this was long but does anyone have any ideas of how i can talk to my mom about it??
thanks (link)
im sorry that this happened to you. i think you should try and have a conversation with your mom and tell her how you feel. try and find a time when he is not around. maybe while he is at work.
hope i helped!
kathryn




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