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Ive been single for a fiew months now and I have been screwed over twice pretty badly by guys. The first guy told me he loved me and then i found out that on a night when i was suposed to be with him he had sex with a girl 4 times! the other time was more recently. I had been hanging out with a guy more often and he would put his hand around my waist and pull me close and want me to stand next to him so he could hold me and stuff and then i found out he was with another girl also! I was crushed both times. But moreso the first time then the second. Its hurt me badly and brought my self asteem down even lower!
My question Is basicly What are some ways I could make myself more confident? I have been told if you are confident with yourself people can notice. Also How can I get a guy to like me? a good guy. Do you have any makeup tips or cloths tips or any tips at all! any advice. It would really help.
Love maddie (link)
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First and foremost, be yourself. I know it sounds stupid but it's the best way. Second, shopping helps MY self-esteem but i dont know what other people like. Doing something your good at also works. Third, if you want clothes and makeup advice, as long as youre not uncoordinated and your face doesnt look like a clown youre doing just fine. (If youre wearing it>>)Lay off the black eyeliner. I know its popular but it looks stupid if you cant wear it right.- As far as boys go, some girls like drama and if thats you then go after the bad boys (which sounds like what youve been attracting yourself to). Try getting into sports if youre not already in something the consists of boys and girls. Alot of guys respect a girl that can whoop his butt.
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Ok last night my sisters bouyfriend raped me. He said that the only reason that he was dating my sister was to get closer to me and that he watched me all the time. I haven't told anyone yet because I am scared and my sister is always telling me how much she loves him and that she wants to marry him. And I know that I should tell her because he is a jerk and I dont want her to make any wrong decisions but I can't because I dont want to break her heart. How can I tell her and my family that he raped me?? Because everyone in our family thinks he is a great guy and he wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone but he hurt me and I don't know if my family will believe me and my sister might think that I am just making this all up because I am jealous. How should I tell them??
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you should tell someone immediately!!! your sisters feelings are a little more different than your health. plus, by saying something to your family it will make your sister aware of how much a freak her boyfriend is. if your family doesnt beleive you then you should tell a school councelor. this is a VERY serious matter!!
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