my name is candy and ive decided 2 give other ppl advice...everybody i know comes 2 me 4 help and thought maybe other ppl could use my advice i will only tell u what i think and how i feel and never tell anyone what they should do or not do
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Age: 31
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I live alone with my dad and have since I was a baby. My mom died in a freak accident of sorts and so it's just been me and my dad all of these years. We get along great! The problem is that I started to have my period and I am going to need some pads (my friend gave me a few of hers to get me by for a couple of days). I know I should tell my dad so that he knows about it but I don't know what to say to him that isn't embarrassing for us both. How do I tell my single-father that I've started having periods? (link)
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oh i remember when i started my period ....i had my mom to talk to but it was still embarrassing i was the only girl out of 5 kids ....well anyways you and your are close and i know its hard to tell your dad that his little girl is growing up and it (im guessing) the last thing he wants to hear ...but he also know its going to happen ...so you have to be brave and sit your dad down and just say "dad i need to talk to you ...and i know this isnt a coversation neither one of us want to have but we have to"......and then just come out and tell him it might seem hard to do but it really ok he knows it going to happen and i bet he is ready for that conversation to happen and be done with ......but he will understand its not easy for you to come to him about it but he will be glad you did ....and if he dont want to go get you pads its ok guys arent really into doing that lol have a friend go with you
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okay well i dont really know how to start it off but me and my dad dont really see eye to eye with things. everytime i try to a have a conversation with him it usually ends up with tears and yelling and im just getting really sick of it. i barely even talk to him anymore because i just am tire of fighting and now its affecting my social life to everytime i get into an argument with my friends or other family members i just start cry and im starting to have panic attacks to... i just dont know what to do anymore... please help
Katie (link)
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my advice would be to send your dad an invition for a father daughter day ....make sure its an outting that you both will enjoy and also give you two time to talk and reconnect...without it being a planned talk ...and public places is a good place to talk because nobody wants to cause a scene....it doesnt have to be a deep convertaion but atleast it will be a calm one ....get to reknow eachother have some funny and get out in the open how you both feel about things ....start out slow and dont force anything .....im betting at one time you was daddy`s little girl ....And he loves you and you love him so it shouldnt take much effort to start getting along ....you dont want to wake up one day and it be to late ...life is to short to let anymore time pass
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