HI! im 15 years old! i have many friends that have helped me through alot of drama in middle school n high school life! I have been through alot of stuff that I can hopefully help you out with!!!
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This may be long and I will try and not confuse you. My parent got a divorce like 2 years ago and are still going to court and everything for money cause my dad didnt pay for awhile ( he got caught up in drugs and had a lot of crack whores at his house, friend married one and also his friends son almost got shot cause a bunch of blacks *not offense but these people should be dead* wanted drug money or something) anyways i wanted them to get a divorce cause how i see it i dont have a dad. A dad isnt a person your scared when he comes home and u have packed extra clothes for when you get sick of it and run away again. *wow this sounds like a sob story* well we didnt talk for almost two years until i stupidly bought him and christmas gift and had a friend bring me over to his house he bought. He wanted me to blow off my friend and stay with him (he is an alcoholic and was on the verge of getting abusive again) so finally as politly as i could i told him that i already had plans and had to leave. we traded numbers (i hate being rude) and he called a few times i really didnt answere them. then after about 6 months he calls up to tell me he is dying 6 months to a year he has left to live. yeah i know i should be spending every moment with him. that night we went out i had an ok time he made me drive :( then while eating he tells me i need to lose about 20 pounds (im 145 but really athletic and used to be anorexic when i was little) did i also mention i start smoking ciggerates and cutting myself at 8 and drinking around 9. ive stop smoking i cant allow myself to be addicted to something and i dont drink as much. ok maybe i added stuff that dont belong but im trying to show what all im going through. Nows my question *finally* should i start talking to my dad again since he's dying but when we talk all i heard is whats your mother saying about me, why wont you come over im dying, let do this cause im dying. now i sound cold hearted. Any thoughts would really help im so freaking confused. sorry its so long. (link)
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ok so i would hang out if my dad was dying in 6 months to a year. because after he passes away you may regret not spending time with him.. now if he gets abusive and drinks and doesnt spend time with you then you could leave because you shouldnt be goin through that. hope i helped
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