Hi, my name is Katie and I'm 15 years old. In those fifteen years I've literally been through more than most people go through in their entire life. I absolutely love helping people, and I've been told by many people that I'm good at it. I'll definitely love to give you advice, but I'm telling you right now I will say what I think, I'm not going to sugar coat everything or tell you what you want to hear just so you'll give me good ratings. So if you have any questions, about anything at all, just ask away, I'd be more than happy to help =]
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Okay my mom has had the worst marriage with her husband. He has left her twice and they have only been married for four years. He's been gone more then he`s liver with her. He always finds women off the internet off them find a mate type things. && my mom will think everything is fine && he`ll up && leave. there is so much more that goes on at home when he`s here. when he lives her he basically lives off her because he can`t get a decent job basically because he doesn`t have a highschool diploma. he always calls me names && tries to put me and my brother and sister down. my mom is in such denial its not even funny she trusts him way to much he has stole alot of money from her and she still gives him her bank card. my mom is jus too nice.
so i want to know is there anyway i can see if hes been looking up women. i know our history is empty and i don`t understand the recycling bin thing. so if you can please help that would be great. (link)
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I'm not really computer savvy, and I think the only way to really search it up is to take someone who knows how to dig deep for that stuff. Next time he's on the computer keep your mom near you and sort of talk with her but keep an eye on what he's doing as well. Be sneaky about it, don't let him know. Try to catch him in the act, that's all I can say.
But if that doesn't work, which it might not, then just open up your moms eyes. It sounds like she needs a HUGE wake up call.
In the end it's going to come down to your mom being the adult and kicking him out.
I really hope everything works out for the best!
One of my best friends is going through the same situation, and I know how hard it is on you!!
Stay strong!!
-Katie
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okay well as a christmas gift this past christmas my parents got me christina a. concert tickets... well just recently, heather (24 years old, so my mom approve of her responsibility, really nice, etc) mentioned it would be at TON of fun if we went together.. well im sure my mom intended for me and HER to go together but i brought it up anyways. i said to her "hahah yesterday heather was like 'IT WOULD BE AMAZING IF WE WENT TOGETHER, WOULDNT?!!??! ASK YOUR MOM' shes so funny" and my mom said i could bring her cause they were MY christmas gifts... and she seemed kinda sad but she said she didnt mind...
Wellll, i reallyreallyreally want to bring Heather, but i fell terrible. and plus i know that if my mom goes we'll get into a fight... AND she already has a musical planned for us to go to together next month... so is it that big of a deal?
so here are my list of questions...:
-who should i bring? (i want to bring heather but who SHOULD i bring)
-if heather, then how do i tell my mom
-if mom, what should i tell heather.... ):
THANKS AND SORRY IT WAS SO LONGGGGGG. (:
xoxo (link)
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Bring whoever you'll have more fun with. It's your Christmas present, and you should enjoy it.
You can always hang out with the other person another time.
-Katie
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i hang with ppl who do drugs and i personally have done them before but i quit, now my sister thinks i still do them but i dont...how do i get her to chill? (link)
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Have a one on one talk with her. Tell her you quit. And tell her the reasons why you quit. Believe me this works. I quit smoking ages ago, but my sister wasn't convinced. I had about a ten minute talk with her about the reasons why I quit and she believed me.
Good luck.
-Katie
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for my sweet 16 my mom wants to bring me to the bahamas but i want to something with my friends but i dont want to have a party
and she says that we dont have the money to bring my friends with me
im soooo pissed because its my 16th birthday and i want it to be fun and special
any ideas on how i can convince my mom to change her mind? (link)
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Suggest having a party before/after you leave for the Bahamas.
Have fun and happy sweet sixteen!!
-Katie
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I have a younger brother who is 13 & I'm a 16 year old girl. I'd like to be closer to him or at least really get to know him. We fought when we were younger & I tend to put him down a lot. We rarely talk now... or see each other. We're both on the computer in our rooms all the time. He likes to play video games & I'm not good at them. It's like we have nothing in common besides our last name.
I don't want to be a bad influence on him though... He makes jokes about weed/etc because it's the cool thing with his friends. I know he doesn't do it. I, on the other hand, have made some not so great choices. He doesn't know I have but still I don't want that to rub off on him... I want better for him.
Anyway, I'd really like to be able to hang with him & just be a better sister than I have been. My boyfriend plays video games with his little brother but I honestly don't know what to do with mine. Any ideas? Thanks in advanced! (link)
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Well definitely try to find something in common! My little brother is 12 and I am 15, we have gotten so close over the last year! We play pool together alot, it's our thing really. We listen to the same music together. He's really a great friend, I consider him a friend, as well as my brother.
Try to find something you both like that you can do together and claim as 'your thing'. Ask him about his day, about his girlfriend. Just talk to him about your day, ask him for help studying or something. [Mine helps me with Spanish].
Good luck, and I admire you for trying to get close to your brother, not many sisters do. You are a great person!!
-Katie
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