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just warning you, this may get long!
last night me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years were in my room and sleeping. not fooling around, literally sleeping. then my dad comes in and freaks out bitching like we had sex or something.
the situation is that i'm the only girl in the family and they treat me like crap. i do the dishes almost every night, take care of my sick grandma, do the laundry, clean the house, and do well in school yet they still look down upon me like i can't be trusted. i am a very responsible girl and i have had enough of them snooping through my room and checking up on me.
the only possible reason why i think they could be acting like this is that we don't communicate very well with each other, let alone get along. maybe bitching is their way of talking to me? even so, that doesn't explain the overprotectiveness!
my question is what can i do to make them trust me? i feel like i've done everything, all ending in failure.
i used to really HATE them for what they put me through, but when they made an effort to BE NICE things got better. our relationship has improved over the past two of months, but after what happened last night, my grudge against them has returned.
please help, i don't know what else i can do. it seems like nothing is ever good enough for them...
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you could try taking things out with them about that nite and tak ta them bout how you think that they don't trust ya n that they could possibly trust ya a little more.......
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my dad hits me. and i'm really afraid of him. when he comes home from work i stay in my room. but whenever i do something wrong. even when i get less than an A on a test he'll hit me and say i'm not living up to my potential. i don't know what to do. He hits my mom to and i get badly bruised from the battles. what can i do? who can i go to? and is there anyway possible that i can get out of my house and be adopted or something? help me Please. (link)
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you should really call the police on him next time your over your friends house(if you really trust their parents though) because you caould tell your friends parents and thety will probrably do someting.....or next time your dad hits you or your mom, the next day after school or something call the police.........he's doing a horrible thing you know...
hope i helped!
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My parents are in a very strict religon.
I dont want to be in this religon and I've told them so, and I don't go to their church.
But everytime I do something against the church rules, (even though I dont go)
they still go, "Your going to hell" "Your a sinner" bla and so forth.
I dont like this and it hurts my feelings. They even say I'm full of the devil and qoute scriptures at me. What do I do? its totally getting on my nerves and just because I dont go to their church doesnt mean I'm a rebellious brat like they think I am.
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try sitting with them and talkin to them one on one........try telling them that you don't want to be in this religion...besides.......they don't have control over wat religion you decide to choose......
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ok this is going to be long but i neeed help! well im 15/f and i go to a big public school. lately ive been skipping classes though. and its not too big of a deal and i mean i know its really wrong but i make everything up and make sure i get all my work and have good grades. but i think my mom found out about it. and shes getting really upset. she hasnt told me anything but shes really sad acting and i hear her sometimes talking to my teacher and saying she wants to keep me in my school but she dosnt know if she can. and then today i looked up my computer history and i saw websites for all GIRL boarding schools in like north carolina and stuff and i live in texas! what is a boarding school? im not even sure! and i mean im a good kid but i use to skip a lot and i started again. so i geuss shes getting upset about it. i dont know what to do. i have a great life here. i have a great best friend, great boyfriend, great everything! if i had known about this whole boarding school thing i wouldnt have evvver skipped again! is there any way do yall think that i can talk to her about this? i already told her i wouldnt anymore. but i messed up! everyone does! ive just been messing up a lot more latley! and i really dont want to leave my boyfriend! im going crazy! what should i do?!?!?! pleaaaaase help!!! (link)
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well, you could try talking to her about it, n tell her that you'll try not to skip school once the next quauter.....mayb you won't go to the boarding skool......mayb it was a mistake?
hope it works!
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okay, my mom has a bf ( who i have no problem with) and he has 2 kids. one of which is my age, hes a guy. my brother likes to ruin my life, so whenever matt is here (his kid) my brother tells him i like him!! he nva believes it but its still wierd when im around him. is it going to be wierd when we move in together? and if any one is a step anything is it hard to form the family?? (link)
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well......this mite not work but,
try to fell like he is part of ur family..n like he's ur bro....n juss be like you are around your other bro. and i wouldn't think it is gunna be wierd wen he moves in....cause it'll be like he is part of you family!
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My brother and I are nine years apart but we get along great and I love him to death. Over the years my brother has been with a few girls and I've always got along with them. But his new girlfriend (he live with her at her moms house because we moved and there was no room) but anyways we dont get along I mean I try to like her but shes a bitch to me and my friends. My best friend shes like my sister she considers mty bro her bro and my bros girlfriend is always a bitch when shes around. She is very stuck up and im afraid my brother is going to be with her for a long time.......What should I do I want to like her but I cant.
Dont say im jelous or protective of my bro because no matter what ill be happy for him. HELP!! (link)
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you should ask ur ur bros gf to go to the mall....or movies....or in other words...like bonding time.....n if this doesn't work....try takin to ur bro bout her..(if he doesn't get mad at ya)
n if niether works....juss keep tryin ta like her!
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