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i just came back from my friends sleepover and so im really tired and was in the car with my mom and first shes like "your always so blah" and then shes like "why are you always so snoty to me" and im like im not and shes like "you dont act like this to mark (my stepdad)" and shes like "your only nice when you want something" (which she used to say to my older sister also) but im like "no" because that not true its just that she is always yelling at me and i am very sensative and it makes me cry. like whenever my parents fight my mom is all mean and so i stay with mark and watch tv with him and hes nice. or the other day i decided to hose off the deck to get the dirt off around 6ish when the sun was going down and i accidently got a chair cover wet inside and outside and my mom got all mad and i didnt mean to i was just trying to help. or when my omm decided to take a kickboxing class so i knew that it started before my firends birthdat party so i wasl ike can you still take me and the shes like "you girls always want me to take you places and i just wanna do one tihng for me.. blah blah" and thats not true, in fact its like only te second time iv asked her to take me anywhere ALL SUMMER (i usually ask mark, not that i even ask him that much but w/e) and then yesterday my mom was like "did you get acard" and i was like no b/c mark was supposedto take me and i figured he could stop on the way there and she was like well hes working outside rite now building our deck so i guess that means i have to take you (all nasty) and she was like you shouldve walked and gotten one and i was like ok i will now with keri (my older sis) and shesl ike no ill take you. and now im really upset because im not snoty so what do i do, by the way, the last thing i want to do is talk to her b/c if i tell her this shell just defend herself and yell at me and then ill cry and ill get yelled at again so please help (im 14/f) (link)
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u seem really close to mark, maybe you could try talking to him....explain things completly, and maybe he can explain EVERYTHING to her.
if she knows everything before she sees you then, maybe she wont be so defensive
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My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend..my paretns got divorced and my dad got marries to my moms best friend..i hate her for doind that...when i want to go places with my dad and my brother she always comes along..i know they are married but how do i tell her i want to be with my dad and brother..or how do i tell my dad?
*helpless* (link)
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ok, so even though my parents aren't divorced...i have many friends whos parents are, and i've given them advice on the same subject.
all you need to do is tell ur dad that you want to spend some quality time with him and your brother.
tell him that its not anything against your step-mom, and just explain to him how you feel.
then, maybe another time...you could try spending some time with just her. you could go shopping...or see a movie.
im sure that they will understand.
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