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Hey I'm Laurell. I've been through a lot so whatever the sitch is i can probably relate and try to help though I know in many situations it seems as though no one but yourself understands completely of what's going on; in some cases there's too much to express or type in words. As the days pass by, time is going by faster, and faster so I wish you the best of luck and wisdom through the rough spots.

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My boyfriend is constantly putting me down, saying that I am fat, and stupid, and he calls me names all the time like b*tch and c*nt. This makes me cry all of the time. And when he sees me crying, he calls me a baby and says I need to grow up. He says he cares about me, but caring means that you help me feel better when I am upset, instead of yelling at me like he does. I can't leave him because we have a 1 yr old son together and plus, if I did leave, I have no where to go, and I can't afford anything. I want to kill myself, but I won't because of my son. Does anyone have any advice for me?

i agree with the other chick- for your son. that he will do it to him too and it's not a good environment for him to be in especially when he puts you down, your son is young but it will affect him in some way. but also, you deserve better! there is NO reason for you to be treated like shit. you could possibly find a job that may allow you to have your son either with/near you or babysitter or something. i know that if you want to get out of that situation, you can. what about your parents? i dont know everything but theres always possibilities. i just know that you will be better off without his opinion because you do NOT deserve to be treated that way. it should not matter how he or any other man sees you but how you see yourself, love yourself and your baby. best of luck in this tough situation.

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ok my mom is WICKED over protective. tonite i wanted to go to this little concert thats going on at 6:30 about 20 minutes away. I asked her if i could go with my older cousin and shes like "well you didnt even tell me what time or where.." and i told her where and shes like "NO WAY" and it seems like she's totally against the people that live there ( even though they arent bad) and plus I was meeting up with some of my friends there. How can i get her to let me go to SOMETHING?? oh yeah..I'm 14

well you know moms usually have their reasons...but some can be a little over protective...so try telling her how much that this (little) concert means to you and that you were going with some of your friends and tell her that you'll all stay together and that you're going with an older cousin that might help!!

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Ok so my parents left town for the weekend and im here with my college cousin. My mom told me not to go to this one guys house but hes having a huge party this weekend. I really want to go but ims cared to death that my mom will find out or something bad will happen and then im screwed for the rest of highschool. should i go or not go?

well stick with your instinck...which is i wouldnt go or call your mom again and tell her that its lik really important that you go!!!hopeihelped~**

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say that there is this girl and she has this mother who is really mean to her like the mom ssays to her thet shes a BI OR WELL I CANT GIVE OUT ANYTHING ELSE but shes really mean and when im over her mom is mean to her then too . . . the mother owes her 400$ in payment for babysitting . . .how cn i help her? how can she help herself?

well you should have a sit down with her and tell her how you feel it doesnt matter if you dont want to its whether if you would like to have a good relationship with your mother and as a friend you could help by supporting this friend!!!!!!!! GLAD I COULD HELP IF I DID!!!!!!

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