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>I AM 13
>I HAVE BLUE GRAY EYES
>I HAVE REDISH BROWN HAIR
>I AM 5'4
>I LOVE GIVING ADVICE
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>I LOVE CHEESE-FRIES
>I LOVE CHICKEN
>I LIKE PIZZA
>I LOVE PLUMS
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I WANT TO BE THE FALLOWING..
>A BLACKHAWK PIOLET
>A PRO WRESTLER(IDOL TRISH STRATUS AND TRIPPLE H)
>GIVE ADVICE
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>I LOVE PLAYING FOOTBALL
>I LOVE PLAYING BASKETBALL
>I LOVE DANCING
>I LOVE SINGING
E-mail: ccugirl13@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
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Age: 13
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14/f
Ok, before I give you the actual question, I'm going ot give you the background.
Here it goes,
It started yesterday, it was my dad and I, watching Jeapordy, and he was making fun of all the contestants, so I hit him in the arm, but then he hit me back, I don't think he realized how hard he hits, but it's very hard. So I hit him back again, and so on, and so on. But at one point he slapped/hit my leg so hard that it left a huge hand print, and I got so mad. My mom wasn't home at the time, I tried contacting her, but she didn't answer. So I took a picture of the mark. It was ok, after that, seeing how I got out of the house for a couple of hours with my friends.Then he and my brother, came to pick me up, we decided to go rent a movie. After that was over, this is going to sound childish, but we were arguing over who got the front seat. And my dad always takes his side, so I was frustrated, so frustrated, that when I got in the back, I said "I hate you both". My dad went "Hate is an awfuly strong word." Then I went "Fine I loathe you, I despise both of you." And it was a quiet car ride after that. When we got home, I had a serious attitude, and my mom wanted to know why. That's when I showed her the picture of my leg[from earlier]. She got really mad, and started hitting my dad. Since I was just as mad, I went upstairs to cool off, and watch the movie I had chosen. When it was over, I wasn't quite as mad, and we[my brother, dad and I] watched the other movie. That was fine.
But, when I woke up this morning, I woke up an hour late, so I jumped in the shower, and while I was in there, my dad comes in and goes "Your too late, Your too late." I have no idea why, but it irritated me. So I snapped back at him; "I can still take a shower!". After I got out, my mom came in and started telling me, that she was going to leave my dad, that we don't get along, and she's leaving us both behind. She asked if I deserved the hit on the leg. Then she goes that stunt you pulled, really screwwed things up.[Refering to showing her the picture, to get my dad in trouble.] And I wasn't allowed to go, where I had planned on going. So I slept. When I woke up, my dad was leaving for work, and he said "Bye." I said "Bye." And he goes, "I hope your happy." And as I sit here now, I can't help, but believe that I was responsible for my family falling apart. My parents have been otgether since they were 14, and I feel as though I ruined it all. That I was some sort of mistake. And I don't know what to do. Does anyone know how I can fix things? I'm feeling very depressed right now,and I have no idea what I'm going to do.
Thanks for anyone who tries. (link)
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well get your parents say sorry to your dad for getting him in trouble and say sorry to your mom for dradding her into it tell them you dont want them to split that with out your parents you would be a nobody!
abercrombie13
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ok so my mom is an alcoholic and shes gotton 2 DUI's and she's gotton in a drinking and driving accident and shes gone to rehab and goes to alot of AA meetings but she still drinks aout oncce or twice a week and the only peoeple in my house is my mom and my little sister and me, since my dad died of cancer a few years ago. and since im the oldest i have responsibilty for the family since my mom cant really take care of me and my sister. i really want to talk to her and try to live a normal life but i dont know how. i just need advice on what your opinion would be on waht i should do. (link)
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ok well i can help the best i can but here is a suggestion why don't you ask her to sit down and talk with you tell her how much you love her but the drinking has to stop because she doesnt know how much she is scaring you and your little sister give her a hug and tell her you love her!
abercrombie13
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To start off i am a 15 year old girl. I am living at home and pregnant. I no stress is not good. Living at home i think is stressing me out i cry every day. Im not sure what to do or how to tell me mother i need out. I am not getting along with my brother or my father. Please Help (link)
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well most parents dont want anything to do with theyre kids after they get pregnat at such an early age but if you sit down and talk to your mom,telling her how much this baby really means to you then maybe things will get better and because you really do need your mom at this time!
abercrombie13
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